Nigerian Lady Shares Her Major Viewpoint After Man Advised Women To Marry ‘Providing’ Men
A Nigerian lady, Ijeoma Chinonyerem, has shared her thought after a man took to social media to advise women to marry ‘providing’ men even if they are earning N2m monthly.
Damilola Christian Amadi had posted: “Dear ladies, even if you’re earning 2million monthly, still go for a providing man.”
Reacting to his post, Ijeoma said that a ‘providing man’ is not necessarily a wealthy man or one who earns more than his wife.
She added that while there are women married to men they out-earn, the men still provide and take up their responsibilities irrespective of who earns what.
According to Ijeoma, it’s a mindset thing, not a wealth thing. She then advised women to go for men who have such mindset and not just a wealthy man.
She also threw a shade at “Proverbs 31 women” married to “non-head giving, non-toilet flushing” men they provide for.
See her full post below…
“And let me add, he said a PROVIDING man, not a man who is richer than you. A providing man provides whether you outearn him or not. It’s not a matter of account balance. It’s a mindset thing.
There are women married to multimillionaires who out-earn them yet these men don’t provide. They’ll be answering nwunye odogwu for mouth.
While there are women married to men they out-earn but the men provide and take up their responsibilities irrespective of who earns what.
Again, it’s a mindset thing, not a wealth thing. Go for that mindset, not the money wey you dey see cos you fit no taste am.
If you like, allow people use “Proverbs 31 woman” to wash your head into partnering with a non-head giving, non-toilet flushing baddie whom you provide for. As oji isi agho mgbọ that you are.”
