5 Rules That Can Save Your Marriage

There are guidelines to follow if you want to save your marriage. Marriage is more than just a game in life but nevertheless married couples enter the playing field with no practical experience or any idea of the rules.

Some couples master the rules faster than others. Some come to a decision they don’t like the game at all and call it a day. Others carry on playing the game even though they don’t like it and are not having any fun at all. They keep on rolling the dice hoping that their luck will change and the game will get better. Let’s have a look at 5 rules that can save your marriage.

1. Being Tolerant.

It’s easy to see the best in a person as long as they are doing what you like. But it is important to make the effort to not let little things irritate you. If your partner does something that does annoy you, don’t look at them as faults but as unique character qualities. Love the faults along with the benefits.

2. Be a Space Giver.

This means not only having separate wardrobes but allow each other much needed private time. Being with someone you love all the time is challenging. This applies to not only at home but with friends as well. Incidentally, with regards to the space in the wardrobes, keep yours tidy.

3. Travel Together And Make Memories.

It’s difficult to get the time to take a holiday break in a busy marriage. But a different environment can really save your marriage by relighting the spark that may be fading. And memories you have from your trip can be the stuff that keeps you stuck together while life’s other pressures try to draw you apart.

4. Don’t Argue But Compare Opinions.

Arguments are a part of marital life but if you want to save your marriage, always consider of your partner’s thoughts and opinions. If the argument gets too intense and its late at night, it may be better to sleep on it. The old saying says that you to never go to bed upset but things usually look much better in the next day. Never give an ultimatum unless of course you want it to be taken. When you consider your partner’s needs and wants and you’ll have a lot fewer arguments.

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5. Don’t Forget The Romance.

You don’t have to be newlyweds to experience romance and intimacy. One of the ways to improve a relationship is to remember what you did when you starting dating and do it again. You probably exchanged gifts, took walks and went out for romantic dinner dates. You may think you know everything about your partner and if that’s so, why aren’t they happy? Why aren’t you happy?

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