Woman Battered With Hammer By Ex Because She Spoke To Other Men
A woman has described the moment her ex-partner beat her with a hammer and tied her to a bed, just because she spoke to other men.
Mum-of-three Claire Harrison, 31, was hit nine times with a rubber mallet – including five times on the head.
During the brutal assault, her violent ex Darren Stenhouse, 38, told her “this is going to end with you in a box”.
Stenhouse beat her, tied her to a bed with security cables and imprisoned her. He said he would hurt her in front of the kids and was going to “cut her until she was unrecognisable”.
Miss Harrison managed to escape by tricking Stenhouse into letting her lie down in her daughter’s room, before she suddenly blocked the door and called 999.
Stenhouse lashed out on March 5, 2013, when he went to pick up his belongings from Claire’s home in Aylesbury, Buckinghamshire.
They had split up in January that year and in the intermittent period she had become close to a work colleague, Damien Selleck, 31, who supported her through her ordeal and who she has since married.
Stenhouse, of no fixed address, appeared at Reading Crown Court in August 2013 and was jailed for eight-and-a-half years after admitting grievous bodily harm and false imprisonment.
Now, Miss Harrison has decided to speak out to encourage other victims of domestic abuse to tell someone.
She said: “I remember shielding my face and seeing Darren was holding a rubber mallet. He hit me once, then another eight times including five times to the head. I dropped to the blood-splattered floor and blacked out. When I came round, Darren was holding plastic padlocks and chains. He said he’d bought them earlier that day to use on me. He tied my arms and legs with metal security cables. He told me his friends were coming round, ‘to have fun with me’. I was petrified. There were tears running down my face. I begged him to stop.”
Miss Harrison tried to get Stenhouse “on side” to escape the beating, telling him she loved him and they could make the relationship work.
She said: “But he just shouted at me. He said he had duct tape and knives to cut me up until I was unrecognisable. He said he planned to hurt me in front of my kids, to torment them.”
Miss Harrison’s children, Iisha, now 13, Kenzie, now seven and Morgan, now five, were at nursery and school.
She continued: “When I asked why he was doing this, he said I’d betrayed him by speaking to other men. I remember lying on the kitchen floor, aching. I wanted to close my eyes and give up but I couldn’t stop thinking about my poor kids. So I forced myself to stay awake, and planned my escape.”
Miss Harrison added: “He carried on calling me names and I always walked around on egg shells with him. He hit me when my kids went to bed too. I should have left, but Darren never hurt them and I loved him, despite him making me feel worthless. He said no-one else would ever love me. People need to pack their bags and leave,” she said. “Damien made me realise that you should never let your partner be violent. I realise Darren manipulated me. He made me feel like I didn’t have a future without him.”
Source: Mirror
Very sad how women remains in an abusive relationship till they almost loose their lives or even lose it. God forbid!!! I hope she has leant her lessons anyway.
Hehehe this is just too much,this man is too wicked…Women pls say NO to domestic violence
Gush! What are some men turning to? This is wickedness.
Why are men so violent for Christ’s sake? God help we women
Say no to an abusive relationship..
Very abusive. Stupid man. I wish her speedy speed recovery
What a wicked man.!!’
Na real wa,i ll luv to know how d beast of a man ended up.
Say no to domestic violence..am happy hs not going unpurnished
Nawah I wonder why sm women will encourage deir fellow women to stay in an abusive maarriage. I pray sm pple will learn frm dis
Scary!!! Sm women in an abusive marriage shuld learn frm dis n pls all dese women advicing deir fellow women to stay in an abusive marriage shuld. Just be careful.
Wake up call for women in violent marriages. Say no to abusive relationships.
That’s how abusive relationships ends..either seriously injured or in a coffin
Any man dat hits a woman has mental problem.But it baffles me why women will risk their lives 4 a crazy man in d name of luv
When person talk na, they will say divorce is not in a Christian’s dictionary. Na wah
First attempt of domestic violence.hellloooooo take a very very long walk….she stayed when she thought of her kids…..God worst is u don’t live to see them.Godforbid.A big NO to violence
The story is very scary to me. I just hope she’s ok.
Omg. I can feel her helplessnesss dat horrible day. It’s a pity n tank God u made it.
This is just wickedness.A woman u once claimed to luv wit all ur life? God hv mercy.
Thank God she’s alive to tell her story and raise her kids and a wake up call for women who are in abusive relationship to leave while it’s still early.
I don’t understand why they come out to speak when the harm has been done.thank God she came out alive. I will always say this once a man hits u, pls leave
Heartless. Some time ago this same man was professing undying love to this woman.
It just baffles me how some guys raise their hands and beat up their wives or girlfriends.As in,i don’t really understand it
I can’t imagine men beating their wives, all this kind of men are animals
God hlp us women especially those in abusive relationships
what a wicked world full of wicked people
Women should wake up and say NO to abusive relationships, there’s no justification for that please.
If u say let u brk up,they begin to plot ways to kill u
Consequences of domestic violence
Glad to hear that ur now free