‘She’s very physically unattractive’: Worried Mum Shares Candid Post About Daughter’s Looks

One of the perks of parenthood is the pride we take in our children; the milestones they reach and even their physical appearance. But what if you thought your child was unattractive? Would you feel too guilty to admit it? Would the thought of other people’s reactions prevent you from admitting it?

A mum posted this open and emotional letter on Reddit about her daughter’s looks, bearing her frustrations and seeking advice:

“I hate myself for saying this, please don’t lambast me, it just is a logical fact, she’s very physically unattractive. She got the worst traits of both my husband and I.

His wide set eyes and strong nose, most of his facial bone structure, actually, my stocky build and curly hair, her skin tone is pretty much right between mine and his.

One doctor (who was filling in for our regular doctor), was explaining to us how to help her wear a splint for what was, thankfully, just a moderate sprain, and said ‘When a child has Down’s syndrome….’

She doesn’t have Down’s syndrome.

Another tried to refer us to a craniofacial specialist because she thought our daughter had Apert Syndrome.”

As she gets older, kids have begun to notice her looks. Some have made rude comments. A couple kids in the park have asked “Why does that girl look that way?” to their parents.”

Others will judge her and never get to see that she is funny, generous, compassionate – she’s the kid that’s always rescuing stray kittens and putting bugs back on leaves.

I’d rather have her be a good-hearted person more than anything else. But life will be hard for her and she doesn’t deserve that. I just don’t know how to NOT feel guilty that I don’t think my own child is adorable and gorgeous.

How can I help her look HER best? How do I answer the ‘am I pretty mommy?’ questions?”

I hate myself enough as it is. I just want to help my daughter grow to be a healthy, happy young woman, and not let her appearance get in the way of letting the world know what a wonderful person she is.”

What would you say to this mum?

Source: Mirror