15-Year-Old Girl Commits Suicide After Mum Blames Her For Being Gang-raped
A 15-year-old girl, Comfort Uche-Ume, committed suicide after she was allegedly ganged-raped by three boys who are now on the run; Ndubuisi Wogu, Chinaza Ufomadu, and Francis Onwoboro, in Abia State.
The deceased is said to be a JSS 3 student who had just finished writing the “Junior WEAC” exam.
Confirming the incident, the state’s Police Public Relations Officer, Mr. Ezekiel Onyeke, told Southern City News that the victim who until her death resided at Iyienyi village with her parents, had gone in the company of her sister who was married at Okwoyi, a neighbouring village, to see her (sister’s) husband.
He said that as evening approached, the deceased opted to return home to remove the clothes they spread outside to save them from getting wet from the threatening rain.
Another source said the deceased decided to return home because she was with the key to their house so that the parents who travelled would not be stranded upon their return.
The PPRO said that as the deceased was trekking back to Iyienyi village alone, she was allegedly accosted by Nwogu, who had been making unsuccessful advances at her.
He said Nwogu, assisted by two other accomplices, dragged the victim to a nearby bush where they gang-raped her, threatening to kill her if she raised any alarm.
Police said that when the sister of the deceased returned home, she met her crying and after enquiries, Comfort narrated her ordeal to her.
Irked by the sexual assault on her sister, she was said to have informed her husband, who quickly rushed to confront one of the suspects and engaged him in a free-for-all.
According to the police, the victim was later brought to Umuahia Central Police Station around 9pm by her parents to officially report the matter.
Onyeke said after lodging the complaint, the police first decided to take the victim to the police clinic for examination and medical attention.
He said after she was examined, the police wanted to take her statement, but the parents pleaded that they should be allowed to take her home, promising to return the next morning since it was getting late.
He continued, “But instead of returning as they promised, the parents never showed up. The mother of the deceased rather decided to scold her over the incident. The mother mismanaged the situation. She said to her ‘Have I not warned you not to go to Okwoyi village alone? Now three men have raped you and if you become pregnant, who will be the father of the baby?’ On Tuesday morning, the mother of the victim allegedly went to her room again and started talking to her. She later invited her for the family’s morning devotion, but she declined.”
Onyeke said when the family began to hold their morning devotion about 20 minutes later, a shout was heard outside the house and the family members rushed out.
According to him, the initial thinking of family members was that the rapists had come to attack her again. But that was not to be as they were shocked to their marrows to see the lifeless body of their daughter, who was reportedly seen dangling on a guava tree beside their house.
Police said the deceased might have decided to take her life out of frustration and possible stigmatisation.
The PPRO, therefore, advised parents and guardians to exercise caution when “they manage sensitive situations that might come their way, especially the ones affecting their children or wards.”
He said, “Parents should avoid stigmatising their children, but treat them with love anytime such unfortunate situation comes up.”
Source: Punch
Ehhhhh Jesus! Hmmmmmmm
When will rape victims stop being stigmatized in this part of the world? Smh
Message.. Oh my God what’s all dis? And come to think of it the mother shuldnt hv gone too far wt words nah
May God help us o
What kind of a mother is that? Na wah oooooo. Common sense they say its not common. God have mercy & rest her soul.
What a pity, the mum really mismanaged the situation. May her soul RIP!
Jesus christ!!
Oh my goodness! !! I don’t really know when some mums will learn to put a check on their tongue no matter d situation. RIP girl.
So this mum cant control her mouth. Its a pity. The girl felt if her own mum could do this to her what will others do.
So sad lets say no to victimisation and stigmitation of rape victims
Poor thing.May her soul rest in perfect peace
Wickedness everywhere!!
Can u imagine?a mother who is supposed to counsel the daughter assuring her that all is well and the idiots will pay for it now did worst than expected. She will live to regret it
Tha mother has learnt her lesson,the hard way though.May her soul RIP
That was the time she needed the support of her mum the most and not scolding cos she was emotionally traumatised. But the mum blew all out of proportion.
Poor girl she was depressed already by what happened to her instead of her mother to help and consoled her she jst added salt into injury Rip as for d rapist u all shall join her sooner dan expected
Parents too dey blame#Mr\Mrsperfect#. If she had known she would have consoled her cos it wasn’t d right tym for blames
RIP to the dead God will avenge you
Poor girl.May her soul rest in peace.Her mum is going to regret what she did for the rest of her life
This is quite unfortunate, God please protect us and our children.
Lord have mercy
Hmmm… Word!! “Parents should avoid stigmatizing their children, but treat them with love in any situation”.