Dear MIM Readers: Would I Be Disobeying My Pastor If I Don’t Return To My Cheating Husband?
I have lived 6 years of my married life in sorrow, pain, and depression as a result of heart breaks from my husband’s unfaithfulness. My husband is a chronic cheat who he receives phone calls from his girlfriends right in my presence.
Not only that, he beats me when I complain. Afterwards, he would apologise and tell me how much he loves me. This has been going on for too long but I have decided to end it now. I packed all my belongings and left have the house since 3 days now. I have decided to move on and be alive for our 2 kids even though I don’t have a good job at hand now. I just want to experience peace. The issue now is that my Pastors are calling and beging me to go back home and believe that God will change him since he went to report himself to them. This is not the first time he’s promising to change.
Would I be disobeying my Pastors if I don’t go back? I really do not wish to return to that house even though I know it will be tough out there alone with the kids and coping with the heartbreak because I still love my husband.
Next time those pastors call you, tell them to go and live with him instead Mtscheeeeeeewwww. My dear you are not disobeying anybody by not going back. Are they waiting for him to kill you before they know what’s up ? When they call again, tell them you’re not going back simple and short and if u can’t, then don’t pick their calls for now. You need to get your sanity back first.
You can only determine what the future holds for you if you take a step forward. You made the right decision, your pastors ain’t important here cos they are not wearing your shoes. A man that cheats and abuses you physically isn’t good enough for you. Fine, it’s going to be tough but i promise you, you’re gonna pull through. Your children needs you alive and sane, i wish you well.
So you consider your pastor words more than your life? Hmmm well done oooo. When he finally kill you then you, the pastor will be there at your grave side.
Madam u did nothing!!! Let the pastor call him to order b4 he kills U
When he kills or maims you,all the pastors would do is to sympathize with you.So instead of them to caution and pray for him to change(since he needs prayers according to them)they are telling you to go back.My dear I know it’s tough but u are more useful to ur kids alive and healthy.So whenever ur pastors call,tell them you are still praying for him.It’s better u pray from a distance than risk your life
To not go by what your pastor is telling u isn’t a sin. U’ve done the right thing already by leaving his house with the kids, there should be no going back on that already-taken decision. Pray to God to help u live through this hardship successfully
Hmmm, nawa!
You are d only one who knows what’s best for you.
That pastor na birds of same feather wt ur man. Instead of tellin de man de consequences of his sins de re busy tellin u to go bk hnmM fake pastors everwhere. So even pastors don join ” ggo bk n pray he wil change” mtchew craZy set of men. Anywaz u can go if u like but bt alive for ur kids ok n avoid RIP cus natin brks de hrt like a cheating useless set of men. My neighbour died 2yrs ago as a resulT of cheating n husband beater n I won’t frget dose last words of hers to my sisters. Be wise let him suffer or go marry his side chicks n See if he can cope wt dem. Some men dnt kw wht de hv till dde lose it n hey don’t be too quick to go bk instead if he repent wella u go kw n make him sign undertaking b4 goin bk cus u be sm1 daughter n mother not his slave. Na ds kind emotional brk dwn de make women kill deir cheating hubby so avoid it
They hv said it all. Be wise
Please stay away from him and watch from far seek professional marriage counselling and watch if he is making any moves to change
and dose same pastors would b called on to handle d funeral when he killS u.u bera move on with life
Please ma stay alife for ur kids they need u more.I pray God strengthens and see u through.
Please, just move on with ur life 4 u av a better future ahead of you .. U staying with him doesn’t worth it.. Be wise!
Don’t let any pastor detect to u hw ur life should be,u are d best architect to ur life,do wat will make u happy ad in peace.Hw many of d pastors out dere leave a happy marriage