MUMS: What Defines Sexy For You?

Ireyimika Oyegbami

It is certain that some people might find it strange, and funny too, that the actions listed below are deemed fit to be classified as ‘sexy’. However, I am sure that all mothers; working mums, stay-at-home mums, work-from-home mums and every other mum category will be able to relate to one or two or even all of these sexy moves your partner might have made sometimes, oftentimes or never!

Number 1 Sexy Move: 

– He Changes Diapers
It is just so that you are really tired when your husband picks up 8 month old Ella who has just released the ‘big one’ into her diaper, takes her to the room and returns with a smiling clean diaper bottomed Princess Ella. Denzel Washington has nothing on him at this sexy point in time!

Number 2 Sexy Move:

– He lets you sleep in
It’s meant to be a lazy weekend; you know it, your spouse knows it but your baby doesn’t. When your partner allows you sleep in on Saturday mornings while he babysits then he can be sure you will be more accepting of his ‘moves’ when the night comes.

Number 3 Sexy Move:

– He indulges in baby talk
It is likely your macho man will try to hide his knack for indulging in baby talk. But he is happy to let you catch him at it when he sees your smile and the ‘promise’ reflected on your face.

Number 4 Sexy Move:

– He does not mind the slobber
Your baby is teething and salivates a lot. So what? He does not mind the drooling and lovingly cuddles up with his baby for the couple of hours it will take for you to get your hair done.

Number 5 Sexy Move:
– He just loves helping out with the housework
This is a really ‘tried and tested’ sexy move. A lot of men can testify that this act is sure to get them some ‘action’ in the late hours of the day.

Number 6 Sexy Move:
– He brings home the Benjamins
This may be every mums all time favourite. Which mum wouldn’t want to have to worry about security?

Number 7 Sexy Move:

– He is quite handy with the baby carrier
Particularly on outing days, does your partner not look really sexy when he straps baby on while you sway in your stilettos with its matching handbag to the delight of your friends? It is only right that you reward him in ways which he appreciates.

 

Number 8 Sexy Move:
– He mops the vomit
Mothers know there is definitely something sexy about a partner who cleans up his 3 year old baby’s vomit because you are 3 months pregnant and throw up from another, even your darling baby’s’, nauseates you.

 

Number 9 Sexy Move:
– He puts sex on the rota
With a baby to care for, sex can’t always be as spontaneous as seen in movies. He is considerate enough to know this and so plans ahead for sex, notifies you in good time and helps you out so that you are not too exhausted to get your groove on when it’s just himself and you alone.

The list is not exhaustive. Dear readers let us know which of the above you consider to be most sexy, you may also add yours if it is not in the list.