5 Cool Things You Should Do While Waiting for the Right Man

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A lot of single ladies, especially those in their thirties, are often stuck at anxiousville until Mr. Right finally turns up. To relieve the usual anxiety while you wait, be at your very best and perhaps facilitate his prompt arrival, here are 5 cool things you should do…

1. Take good care of yourself. Don’t give in to gloom because everyone except you is getting married and start trying too hard to find yourself a man. Quit being desperate, stay positive, indulge in those several cool things you love like going to the cinemas with friends, look good and always wear a lovely smile. Take mini vacations if affordable and be happy! He might just spot you when you least expect.

2. Socialize. Of course, it’s possible the right man walks right into your living room with your cousin or some friend or you meet in your office by some stroke of luck. In that case, hardly going out wouldn’t matter, but it doesn’t always happen that way. So, make lots of good friends, keep up old and new friends on social media, hang out at fun spots, attend social functions, and so on. You never know where or when you’ll meet.

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3. Grow. Don’t turn all your energy, passion and time into finding the one and unconsciously stunt your personal growth. Invest in a Masters degree, some professional course to promote your career, learning profitable skills, starting a small business or anything else that has lots of potential for personal growth. You would be the better for it and he’ll likely respect you more when he finds you. Besides, you might even meet in the process of pursuing those goals – you really never know.

4. Identify and work on your weaknesses. No one is perfect, right? But you likely already have a long list of perhaps very high expectations your ideal man has to meet. So, make yourself that ideal woman too by spotting weaknesses or bad habits that may get in the way when you meet. The goal is to try very hard to become a way better person than you currently are.

5. Pray. As with every other area of your life, it’s worth committing this aspect too in His hands.

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