“Help, My Husband Cannot Go More Than One Round”- Wife Cries Out In Frustration

A 44-year-old woman, identified as Afusat Simpa, has complained of being sex starved by her husband, who does not go more than one round of sex, the Sun News reports.

According to the report, this has often caused disagreements between the couple in their home in Agege, Lagos State.

She said, “I expect my husband to be able to take me to orgasm whenever I wish to make love to him. But no, that is not the case; instead he would stop at one round breathing as if he just climbed a mountain. It is unacceptable. But I understand his predicament.”

She added that her husband, 51-year-old Aminu Mohammed Simpa, has not gone more than one round of sex with her for the past 13 years even when she expects three rounds from him for satisfaction. What is more, she has to inform him beforehand whenever they want to have sex so that he can conserve his energy during the day for sex later at night.

This, however, was not always the case, she admitted to The Sun News. She recalled, “Before the accident, he was agile and I was always praying that no woman should have sex with him because he knows how to satisfy a woman.”

Her husband had an accident in May 2003 while on duty as a security officer at Glaxosmith­kline, in Ilupeju, Lagos. After sustaining some form of injury, he was operated upon. This, according to him, has hindered his performance as a man.

The father of four said, “That day, I was on morning shift, to close work around 2 pm. My supervisor, Wilson Oyedele, who was on afternoon shift that day delayed me and asked me to work with the people on afternoon shift because there were few people working on afternoon shift.”

He further said, “I was told to work from 2 pm and close by 5 pm. That day, loading started around 5 pm and the gate to the warehouse was faulty to the extent that we used plank to suspend it when we opened and closed it. I was in a hurry to go home because I did not inform my family that I would be coming back late from work. The boy offloading was too slow for my liking so I went to assist him, in the process I was hit by the bad gate.”

Frustrated with her predicament, his wife has done all she can to improve her husband’s condition, even procuring the local herb, popularly called ‘Afato’ for him.

She said, “As a man of peace, he would console me and plead with me that things will improve. I have tried to help him improve it. Sometimes I would buy him drinks or tell him not to work much, yet it would always result in the same thing.”

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