Lady Who Confessed To Sleeping With Her Cousin’s Husband Wants Your Advice
I was the girl who posted about sleeping with her cousin’s hubby and I was given advises which I took and worked with. Read here.
I cut all ties with my cousin’s husband and even changed my line but I didn’t tell my cousin about it. I just let sleeping dogs lie but I never believed in this life that my cousin would ever hear about it.
I got a text from her on friday night that read, “thank you so much for sleeping with my husband.” I was scared so I called her line but she didn’t pick. I called her hubby and he picked. He said he was at the rig. I asked him straight away if he confessed what happened between us to his wife. He said it slipped out during an argument that he told her that if she claims to be a good and observant wife, then how was he able to sleep with me under her nose. He said my cousin fainted but they later made up.
I told him about the text and he said I shouldn’t worry about it that he will talk to her. When he started talking about how much he missed, I angrily ended the call.
I called my cousin the next day and she kept crying and crying. I was crying too because I am truly sorry for what I did. This morning, I got a deadly text from her threatening to ruin me and so many other threats. I forwarded the text to her hubby who was enraged but he said he would take care of it.
She called me after two hours and said it seems her hubby is marrying both of us but that I shouldn’t worry, that her God is alive. She started crying again and ended the call. I’ve sent her many apologies today but my heart is still empty. God knows that I’m deeply sorry. Will she ever forgive me? I’m sorry I got carried away by her husband. Please how do I beg a woman whose heart is filled with so much bitterness?
Please advice me.
U really messed up but Kip begging her. U need to see her face to face and beg her . She will forgive you.
Pls let her be for now
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Heart filled with so much bitterness you say!? Bitterness you and her husband caused. How about you stop calling the husband whenever she texts or call you because you deserve those hateful texts. What is she still doing with a man who brags about sleeping with her cousin under her nose? When will Nigerian women start respecting theirselves? As for you, I have only one word for you KARMA she’s a bitch and she will definitely have puppies on you.
This was d reason why u shouldn’t v sleepy with her husband in d first place
you better settle what’s between you and your cousin between you and her and leave the man out of it,if you truly want to cut all ties with him why are u still forwarding the text she sent you to him? I don’t believe you’re really sorry yet cos u seem to me like you enjoyed some gains while u were straffing your cousins husband ,congratulations for putting tears in the eyes of your fellow woman, and cousin for that matter! truth be told the relationship between yourself and your cousin will NEVER be the same and you have to try ur best to keep ASKING for her forgiveness and quit involving her husband in whatever u discuss with her cos I know that GOD truly never sleeps, I also know something called karma so u seek her forgiveness and that of GOD as much as you can.
You put the bitterness there. By the way why are you forwarding her messages to her husband? are you trying to cause more harm than you have already done?? She has every right to be angry right now. You just destroyed her home,broke her trust and made her lose her faith in humanity. Why are u still telling her husband every thing that goes on between you and your cousin. You want him to beat her for you, or send her away and marry you. Let’s call a spade a spade. You are not sorry. If u are, no matter what she says or does, you won’t tell her hubby so that it won’t cause more harm. Well if eventually she leaves her home, pls don’t move in as a new wife
The mistake you made was refusing to confess to her before she found out. If you had told her first, you would have had more peace than you had when you only confessed to the priest. I don’t believe you are deeply sorry cos if you were, you would have told her immediately you repented of your actions no matter how difficult that decision was. You owe her at least that. She was your cousin for God’s sake! But now, all you need is sincerity in your remorse and apology to her and TO GOD as well cos HE’S the only one who sees the heart & knows how truly sorry you are. Then, Pray for your cousin too to forgive you & heal from this immense pain and betrayal. And as for the husband, all I will just say is FLEE!!!!! otherwise, this might repeat itself…
It’s quite unfortunate you are aggravating your offences b4 your cousin,meanwhile all is well said,what you need to do is just to take your time to study who she love most also serve as her most realiable confidant, relate the issue with such person and ask him/her to beg on your behalf,Never you go with that person to avoid the story of she WAS once a pretty lady(Acid)NEVER call,return,or text her hubby again,also in any kind of family gathering never attempt to be close or have any contact with the said(he goat)sorry husband.A word is enough for the wise.
To me u ain’t sorry yet bcos u still forward her msg to her hubby wch will still cause another chaos in their home, girls of nowadays, dnt worry dats how another person will like and sleep with ur husband because he is handsome and sweet too, yeye dey smell
The deed has already been done so make peace with yourself and God and make sure you have truely repented then the healing process will begin also pray for her that God should give the grace to forgive you and heal her wound. Meanwhile stop reporting her to her hubby at any given opportunity. You can sort things out without her hubby knowing.
How do you expect her to believe that you are sorry when you are still communicating with her husband? If you are truly sorry, cut ties completely with the man. No matter what your cousin says don’t report to her husband just keep begging her.
Please leave the husband out of this mess you got yourself in, or are you still interested in him, it is so hard for her to forgive you now, even if she does, she will never forget the issue. Pray to God to forgive you and for cousin for forgive you. It is a tough one
You messed up big time, leave her alone for now cos she’s really angry.
people like you should be consumed by Gods fire,why sleep with your cousins hubby?you are a disgrace to womanhood…….crying crocodile tears.shame on you!!!!nkt
Delete and block all their numbers. STOP communicating with them. Leave them alone.! Pray for God to heal their marriage and also ask God for forgiveness.
Dear, I truly believe you that you are sorry from the bottom of your heart. The harm has been caused. What is the right way forward?.
I will suggest that you give your cousin a break, no text, no calls, no “tell her for me”. She is hurt, angry and disappointed. she needs healing and it takes time to get emotionally healed even with the slightest bruise. So you can only imagine how long she may need for this.
Forgive yourself. Stay away from her and her husband.
Pray for her, pray for yourself.
God will take control and the right time will present itself for face to face sincere apology. Don’t create the time, give nature a chance. I am sure that you will be fine.
Pls .stop communications with her husband. Frankly he is not an ally in this matter.provably still telling his wife you two still contact each other. What for you want her yk think?face your cousin you knew her probably before even the husband cane along. Yes you made a mistake but you have repented genuinely I guess and stooped all the madness.Give your cousin time pls.HSE needs time.be prepared for any thing she throws at you you betrayed her trust.you will have to earn it again,an believe me it will not be easy and realistically she will never trust uiu entirely again be prepared for that.pray for her yo heal and pray for your self also. Keep away from her hubby he is not your friend or confidant or helper. She must know and see you’re sincerely changed and done with her hubby. You will be fine my dear.all the best.