Mum-of-3, Ivie Edobor, Cries Out For Justice After Estranged Husband Who Almost Killed Her Left Her Crippled
This is the story of a Nigerian mother of three, Ivie Edobor who was brutally assaulted by her estranged husband, John Edobor, a Zenith Bank employee, who is still walking free while she has lost the use of her right leg.
This is a cry for justice from the very lips of the victim who has chosen to be called a survivor after surviving this gruesome attack from the hands of the very man she shares three lovely children with.
Ivie tells her story in a Facebook post below…
Dear friend,
To shed more light on my ordeal, this is my story.
Two years ago my husband kick me out of his house along with my 3 daughters ages 9, 7 and 4. I was forced to move back to my father’s house and struggled to provide for my 3 children as he completely neglected them and even took them off his medical insurance provided by his office, Zenith Bank Plc.
After much struggle, I finally got back on my feet. Got a great job, enrolled my kids in a new school and rented an apartment for my 3 kids and I.
About Easter time this year he decided he wants to be part of my children’s life again. I allowed him access to the children as I felt we could be civil to each other for the sake of our children. At this time, I had started putting my documentation together for the divorce process. Early hours of June 19th, on my way back from a function, a friend had parked right in front of the gate of my apartment to press the bell for the gateman to open the gate and let me into the compound when suddenly he was rushed at and attacked by a man waving an object.
The first impression was that it was an armed robber trying to rob us. My friend, (a man) pushed him away but he came charging back. At this point, I looked out the opened door and realized it was John Edobor my enstrange husband. Before we could react a group of area boys showed up but rather than saving us from the assailant, they joined him. The proceeded to be my friend on the floor giving John the opportunity to focus his attack on me. He used a metal bar(wheel spanner/ metal rod) to try hitting me on the head through the opened drivers door but I shielded it. Not satisfied with that, he turned to the passengers door dragged out to the floor. I landed on the floor with my legs extended where he proceeded to hit me on the leg continuously with the metal. When he was satisfied he was about going back to join the area boys who had gathered my friend when my neighbour who had heard my screams for help and seen from his window a man striking someone on the floor thinking it was an armed robber, numbed down his balcony with a machete to save whoever was being attacked. On getting down he was faced with my enstrange husband whom he had prevented from entering my compound without my permission on 2 occasions so he recognised him. It was at that point he overpowered John. The area boys recognised him as a member of the security team for the street and backed off my friend. By that time I couldn’t stand up and my leg was bleeding profusely. I was rushed to the hospital where my jeans was torn off my leg to see the nature of my injury. The injury was so severe that my broken bone torn through my skin puncturing an artery in the process. Almost 3months and 2 surgeries later, I have titanium plates and screws to keep my leg in place and I am unable to use my right leg. I still have my 3 children to care for and my life is at a stand still. The perpetuator was charged to court and released on bail 3 days later. Now he moves around freely carrying on with his life. Now is it wrong for me to cry for Justice.
We call on the Justice Department, the first Lady of Lagos State, Mrs. Bolanle Ambode and the Governor of Lagos State, His Excellency, Governor Akinwunmi Ambode to help the victim Ivie, get the justice she deserves.
This is crazy, a man that is educated enough to be a Zenith Bank staff did this to a woman he was married to and he’s still walking free? Something needs to be done about this.
God have mercy
Some men are worse than beasts. she very much deserves justice and I pray she gets it. That man has no place among humans.
Mr. Edobor need to face the music , justice must be served
Beast in human form
She should contact Lagos State Domestic and Violence Response Team in Alausa, Ikeja. They help women get justice or call 08137960048
This is why I like jungle justice in some circumstances. Thanks Ade
There’s more to the story than she’s sharing… I believe there must have been an issue of infidelity in their marriage. No reasonable man kicks the mother of his kids out of his house for no reason. What’s her relationship with the man in the car with her. She tells us her “estranged” husband works at Zenith bank. Where does she work and how does she earn a living to support 3 schooling children??… How involved is her family (parents, siblings, other relatives) in this case and what have they done or said to support her case. In this decaying society of today people should seek solution for their marriage problems through consultation, dialogue with spouse and wise advise/ guidance from matured close family members instead of using the social media and internet for emotional blackmail
YA VERY VERY STUPID FOR THIS HELL OF A COMMENT.
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IS NOT, IS NEVER, WILL NEVER HAVE A JUSTIFIABLE REASON!!!
EVEN IF YOU CATCH HER WITH THE MAIGUARD, ALL YOU OWE HER IF YOU CAN’T FORGIVE IS “GERROUT OF MY LIFE”.
YOU HAVE NO REASON WHATSOEVER UNDER THE SUN TO HIT HER … NONE !!!
ONLY A BABARRIC GOOD FOR NOTHING BASTARD WILL JUSTIFY THE ACTIONS OF THIS SWINE.
IF SHE DIDN’T DODGE THE METAL ROD HIT TO HER HEAD OR HER EYES, HE WOULD HAVE BROKEN HER SKULL, RIGHT?
OR LEFT HER BLIND IN ONE OR BOTH EYES, RIGHT????
YOU DON’T WANT YOUR FACE AND NAMES SPLASHED ON SOCIAL MEDIA BUT YOU REFUSED TO GIVE YOURSELF BRAIN AND BELIEVE YOU HAVE THE MONOPOLY OF MADNESS AND WICKEDNESS!!!
MAY YOU NEVER KNOW PEACE IN YOUR MISERABLE LIFE, LOW LIFE DIRTY PIG !!!!!
Thank you jare!!! I can feel your annoyance, am pissed at that stupid comment. There is no justification for trying to kill your spouse. He chased her out and still went after her life!!!
Mr she or he,even if all your assumptions are correct, is that why he should go to the extent of beating up a woman and maiming her? I suspect u r the Mr John in question
This man is a Mad man,see him wearing suit like a gentleman. Beast in human form.I pray that he is brought to book so that inmates wl deal wt him,shebi he has strength to fight?
I’m so pissed at that annoying comment, no matter what she has done, it doesn’t give the husband right to beat her up, Justice needs to be done, And MrShe seems like you’re in support of domestic violence