Dear Mimsters: How do I make amends for this sin I unknowingly engaged in with a man of God?

Sometimes we sin unknowingly not knowing where the repercussion would come from.

In mid 2016, I met a man on my way coming from a super market. He looked rugged and a bit old in a Lexus 350 car. He walked out of his car to me and started praising my looks. He was with his friend. I ignored them at first cause they looked so much like players. He demanded for my contact but I refused until he almost embarrassed me by following me up my street till I gave him a line I only use for browsing.

Later that evening, he called me to come hang out with him in his hotel room but I told him I don’t hang out with people  dont know. He left the following day for his base and called me to promise me heaven on earth, but I ignored him.

I decided to play along since he seemed to be flaunting excessive money. He came around again and this time took me for shopping and bought me an expensive phone. We were flowing till he invited me to his hotel room which I refused to honour. We kept communicating till I started liking him. It was on that day he asked me to be his girlfriend.

He confirmed he was married with 3 kids and had a lovely wife but I couldn’t resist his kindness towards me, so we began dating but I made sure his wife never suspected as he loves his family so dearly. We never spoke when he’s at home. Sometimes my instinct told me there’s was something else about this guy. He claimed he was rugged before Christ arrested him.

Each time he comes to visit me, he tells his wife he came for a contract in the government house and he just finished a meeting with the governor. I asked him why and he said he’s handling a contract in my area. There was this day he told me he was going to the north to do a charity work which involved feeding people on the street. I wondered what kind of man would leave south south down to the north to give to the needy.

He left but kept communicating with me, updating me on all his activities that day. Three days after, I called him all day but he didn’t pick up. I was so devastated if anything could have happened to him. One week after he called me. I was bitter that it took so long to hear from him, knowing too I would be worried. It resulted to an argument. He didn’t tell me he was back home to his family if not, I wouldn’t have called.

Finally, he shouted on me and told me that I want to destroy his marriage. He dropped the call and never called me again. Before now he told me he was not on WhatsApp, but one day he called with a strange number which I saved, it was registered with WhatsApp. I kept monitoring him. I also tried all I could to find him on Facebook which took me so long. Finally, I saw this man and his lovely family.

Lo and behold I saw this man dressed as a BISHOP. This man I’ve been dating is a Bishop. His friend that was with him in the car that day who helped him to toast me is also a Pastor and owns a church in Port Harcourt. My heart melted and I felt so disappointed.

I added the wife’s account and I want to confess to her but will disguise it was my friend he was dating. I want to teach him a mini lesson for approaching me like the womanizer he truely is. He really lavished his money on me but I felt guilty when I discovered that he is a Bishop, a confirmed one.

My question is: should I still chat his wife up and let her know that her husband disrespects God and is a false prophet or should I let it die? He still called me once in a while but I’ve stopped and blocked him from calling me.

I can’t believe this is the same man who used to give his kid the phone to speak with me when the wife is out of town.