Orgasms: 4 Tips To Help A Woman Reach the Promised Land

The problem with female orgasm is that there are various different routes to reach the Promised Land.  While some women might only get an orgasm through vaginal intercourse, others can only get it through clitoral stimulation. The repetitive in and out movement of sex is enough to make a man orgasm, for a woman that does not do the deed at all.

What is an Orgasm?

It is interesting to find that a good number of women, who have never had an orgasm in their lives have been married for years, and some do not even know what it is. An orgasm is the heightened pleasure a woman feels during sex, often times she ejaculates, just like a man, which is referred to as squirting. It will surprise you to know that a woman can have multiple rounds of orgasms in a single round of sex, where men need to ‘relax‘ after one.

How to have an Orgasm

• Be open and vulnerable with your partner

Most men get all the excitement they need to reach the promise land through the repetitive movements, grabbing boobs or butt during sex. If you find out you want more, speak more. The thing about sex is your body speaks to you. Women have twice as more sensitive spots than men, do not be afraid to speak up. some men find this very arousing. If you want him to kiss you during sex, say so, want him to suck on your nipples tell him, if you do not like those things and would prefer something else tell him.

• Free your mind

A stressful day’s memories can still manage to taunt you, even when you’re in a relaxed mood. To stay in the moment, try to focus your thoughts purely on the physical and pay attention to how every touch, lick, and stroke feels. Sex is a mind exercise as well as physical.

• Be selfish

Worrying too much about your partner’s pleasure means you wind up ignoring your own most of the time. So silence the inner thoughts of “How am I doing?” and simply enjoy the experience. Otherwise, it becomes more of work than play

• Spice up your sex positions

Don’t get into a routine of having sex the same way all the time. Spice up your bedroom antics with your husband. Positions like Girl on top, doggy style, advanced Missionary style and the leap frog will help to get you closer to orgasms. Why? They provide more access for clitoral stimulation and give room also for the breasts and nipples to be touched, caressed or licked, (Fun Fact: The clitoris has 8000 nerve endings, twice as much as the penis). It is extremely sensitive to touch.