Dear Mimsters: Do you think it will be wise to end this marriage?

After moving out of my husband’s house, he sent people to come ask for my forgiveness on his behalf. After all his cheating cases and not being intimate with me for more than a year, I thought it would be wise  to forgive due to elderly people asking for another chance. Mind you, he travels almost every two weeks to go see his girlfriend who he rented a place for.

Recently, I had to use his car and he forgot his phone in his car for fear of bringing it to the house where I could have access to it. Whilst going about my errands, his phone rang and it was his girlfriend. I answered and told her not to call him again. She called a second time and this time around, there was a serious exchange of words between the girl and I. She made so many claims and also sent me countless number of pictures of them together on WhatsApp. She told me that I am not his since she is the one recognised as the true madam. Never mind that we are traditionally married and have a daughter together.

When my husband was questioned about the issue, he had the nerve to ask ,”why did you pick the call kmowing that it her?”

We were supposed to travel together to his hometown but I realized he had gone to tell his girlfriend that I forced my way into travelling with him which she used to insult me as well. I told his mother who up till now has not said anything concerning the issue. I went further to tell his uncle who invited me over to his village to settle the issue. I told him that my hubby’s girlfriend has threatened to harm me if I come there. Meanwhile, hubby has not made any effort to apologize or turn over a new leaf. Let me just end it here.

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I need advice on how to handle this as I’m tired of all this embarrassment and pain. Do you think it will be wise to end this marriage?