Sonia Ogbonna Comes for Women Shaming other Women Because of a Man

Nollywood actor IK Ogbonna‘s wife, Sonia, who is a relationship blogger, is well-known for speaking candidly about love and relationships. In a new Instagram post, she calls on women to stop shaming other women because of a man.

She said:

I’M SO SICK OF DOUBLE STANDARDS. Help me understand this please: so when a woman cheats on her man ,y’all don’t call a side dude “home breaker” and “wife snatcher”. Instead,wife is labeled as an irresponsible whore. When a man cheats on his woman,it’s not a man that you will blame. You justify his actions just because,(even though in most cases his married self is the one throwing bread at them babes) and it’s all “side chick’s” fault. She is the one you will abuse,insult and call names,”husband snatcher aka home breaker”..etc… I don’t get.. The most painful thing is, it’s WOMEN who support,accept and teach their daughters to live according such double standards,not even men sef. It’s your fellow lady that will call you names and point fingers at you. Stop shaming one another all in the name of idiotic competition based on jealousy and personal insecurities among women. YOUR MAN DOES NOT TREAT YOU RIGHT BECAUSE YOU SETTLED FOR IT AND ALLOWED IT ,NOT BECAUSE OF ANOTHER WOMAN. #soniaogbonna

A post shared by Mrs. Sonia Ogbonna♠️ (@sonialareinaa) on May 12, 2017 at 6:54am PDT

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“I’M SO SICK OF DOUBLE STANDARDS. Help me understand this please: so when a woman cheats on her man ,y’all don’t call a side dude “home breaker” and “wife snatcher”. Instead,wife is labeled as an irresponsible whore. When a man cheats on his woman,it’s not a man that you will blame. You justify his actions just because,(even though in most cases his married self is the one throwing bread at them babes) and it’s all “side chick’s” fault. She is the one you will abuse,insult and call names,”husband snatcher aka home breaker”..etc… I don’t get.. The most painful thing is, it’s WOMEN who support,accept and teach their daughters to live according such double standards,not even men sef. It’s your fellow lady that will call you names and point fingers at you. Stop shaming one another all in the name of idiotic competition based on jealousy and personal insecurities among women. YOUR MAN DOES NOT TREAT YOU RIGHT BECAUSE YOU SETTLED FOR IT AND ALLOWED IT ,NOT BECAUSE OF ANOTHER WOMAN. #soniaogbonna”