Dear MIMsters: Which of these candidates should I choose?
I need help. There are 3 guys seriously on my neck for marriage. Which of these candidates should I choose to become my husband?
I have dated Mr A for 6 years. He’s an average living guy. He loves me, I do love him but he has been stalling to do the necessary things for marriage.
I met Mr B met during my service in 2013. I dated for a year and we broke up due to a little argument for a year. He has asked for a reconciliation and wants to see my people to do the needful for marriage. He is caring but very realistic. He won’t buy things he considers too expensive for me. I tend to think he doesn’t love me because of this.
Lastly, I met Mr C in 2015. He can go the extra miles for me cause it’s written all over him. He loves me but I don’t love him that much and my people may not accept him due to the nature of his job. He is currently a manager in pure water factory, though he’s a graduate and has other sources of daily income.
These 3 guys are lovable, men of few words, love God, respectful, humble, there has been no signs of ill behavior and they are already heading towards greatness.
My dilemma is this, they all want to come this year to see meet my family for marriage. Mr A in December. Mr C also in December and Mr B in September. I am from Imo state while they are either from Edo or Delta. I need your help to make choice as I am confused. I have prayed but I have received no confirmation yet. Mr. A is the only one amongst them that I have slept with.
Go for C. It’s better to be with someone that loves you more, than one you love more.
I can’t choose for u , u are d one dating them and u knw them very well go nd pray about it and follow ur choice God will help u
Nobody can make a lifetime decision for you
hmmmmnn d decision is yours but Mr c might b an option