Dear MIMsters: This guy my sister’s hubby introduced me to wants this….
My sister’s hubby introduced me to this guy as a matchmake for marriage.
The guy returned to his base on the sea where he works over a year now and we have been in communication since then. The problem is that he has been asking me to send my nude pictures to him, and that I should also send videos of my nude self but I have always said no to having anything sexual with him until after our wedding.
He’s asked me several times and I have consistently refused each time he asks. I finally told him what I think of his request and told him that I don’t think I will ever be able to yield to it. Then he said he can’t go on with the marriage plans anymore because any woman who refuses to yield to her guy’s simple request will do worse in the marriage.
I love him, but I don’t think it is the right to do. I am 25 and in my second year in the university. I need your advice on this: Should I let my sister’s husband know what his friend was asking for, so he wouldn’t think it was my fault and how?
I will advise you to tell ur sister that introduce you to him but if your sister opinion is against your wish don’t ever do because its dangerous for ur future.
Please don’t give your nude pics on. It is very inappropriate. He is not even engaged to you officially. If he doesn’t want let him go. He doesn’t worth it. A better man that will value you will come. Also let your sister know about the guys request. All the best
At 25 what are you rushing to get married for? Besides that guy is the very wrong guy for you. Please end the relationship asap.
Let me be sincere with you, if you like yourself fleet away from that guy he won’t marry you if you allow him to see your nude pictures he might even tag you as a loose girl to his friends and other people that is going to show your naked picture to. Pls be wise and runaway from such person
Inform your sister and her husband about the guy’s request. From their response you’ll know what to do. If they don’t see anything wrong with it, disassociate yourself from them.
Pls end the relationship. That guy is sooooo wrong for you. Pls do not compromise otherwise you will later regret your actions. Your own man will come sooner than u expect, just wait a little more and you will be glad you did.
Please don’t send your nude pictures nor video to him. He will use it to blackmail him 8n future. Also let your in law know abouthis evil iintention.
Last but not the least stand your ground and take a walk away from this evil relationship.
As for me, I will tell my sister who will in turn tell her husband about. Tell her everything, questions and answers, responses and counter responses
let him go what rubbish he just wants to get to ur promise land.have u ever taught abt d fact dat he can post dose pic on social media???…
He’s nothing but a scammer…don’t send your nude pix to him or else you will regret you did at last.
You don’t want your nudes all over the internet tomorrow.