Dear MIMsters: I Really Have to Move On From My Toxic Marriage. But How?

I dated my hubby for five years before we got married last year. We now have a beautiful daughter. Little did I know I was getting myself into a toxic marriage.

My problem is that it is obvious that my husband has been hiding the fact that he has a daughter or that fact that he is now married from the public. Fine, I know he has girlfriends but what I ask of him is to be proud of my daughter.

At least, I see married men display picture of their kids everywhere, even his friends, but my own husband does not and this makes me feel very sad. Even when I try to tag him on our pictures, he untags himself and goes away from Facebook for months. He does even have any of our wedding pictures on Facebook

One last thing is that his level of infidelity is so high that my elder sister caught him red handed last year. Meanwhile, I’m the only one bearing the financial burden of our home, house rents, everything because he is having problems at work. All I want in return is just respect for my six month-old daughter whom I love so much. There are so many sore things going on that I can’t keep writing about. Right now, I feel he is having a serious affair with someone, I’m seriously considering moving on. It will surprise you to know that he is a deacon in church, yet he has refused to officially dedicate our daughter in church.

I take full responsibility in all ramifications for our daughter. I solely provide her with everything. Based on all these, I really want to move on. How should I handle this?