Dear MIMster: How Do I Train My Daughter Without Breaking Her?

I need to know if my child is a genius or she is just being hyperactive like most children. I also need advice on how to channel her energy wisely without breaking her.

I noticed right from birth that my daughter is strong willed and independent. Right from the hospital where she was born, she always refused to sleep in any position she was placed. She would twist and turn, place her hand under her head, cross her legs until she found a comfortable position and then she would sleep. This earned her a nickname at the hospital.

Now, she’s only two years but can identify numbers from one to fifty, she knows her name, the state in which we live, and can make full sentences. She sees objects in things that I cannot even see. She can recite states and capitals, doesn’t use the diaper any more, knows her body parts and also everybody by name.

Her teacher once said to me, “madam, your daughter is very smart. Do not look at her with the eyes of a 2 years old child.” I could go on and on but let me not bore you with them. Amongst all these, what bothers me is that when my daughter does something wrong, she finds it hard to take correction and will not say I am sorry when she is told to, no matter what. She has just refused to learn to say “sorry.”

I really need tips and advice on how to raise her without breaking her.