Dear MIMsters: Feed Back on Dealing With My Man’s Rejection and Mum’s Pressure

I am here to feed back and to show gratitude for all your comments towards my post yesterday. Read here.

I went to see my boyfriend’s younger brother before opening up to my mum. His response was shattering.

He told me that his brother, my boyfriend is already in a serious relationship with a woman well known to their family and that they all love her. He also told me:

” you can only be a baby mama to my brother, not a wife because your status is too low compared to his.” He told me that his brother is a millionaire and that as one, it is not a new thing to have sexual relations outside his relationships and that I am just a sex toy. I left.

Not long after I left, my boyfriend called me to accuse me of not being pregnant and that he is coming to take me to the lab by himself to prove it.

He asked me if I was truly pregnant, is it then compulsory for him to marry me. He asked, must you force yourself on me because of a pregnancy.”

This is the guy who begged me to date him. The same guy who gives me money and stuffs even when I do not ask. The same man who asks for detialed explanation for every call that I receive in his presence. This is the man who begs me to love him. Now, he is saying that I he am forcing myself on him.

I can’t hold my tears and I could not keep this to myself. I had to tell my mum about it and she said she will take responsibility for the baby. My mum has told me to no longer have any discussions about the pregnancy with his family.