Dear MIMsters: I’ve Got Real Evidence He’s A Liar But I’m Still Here
I’ve been dating this Nigerian guy for a year plus now, he traveled to Nigeria and spent a month there. While in Nigeria, he was seeing this other woman, they both went out on several occasions with the people who happened to be my informants. My boyfriend is a liar.
Yet he calls me and tells me that he cannot wait for me to come visit Nigeria. I’ve been speaking with his nieces and nephews on FaceTime and they say they cannot wait for me to visit.
Baby came back and this other woman has been busy calling him night. One day, he didn’t want to answer because I’m there, so I took the phone and told the lady to back off.
When she confronted him, he denied ever having anything to do with anybody else besides her. This is the same thing he told me and all the other girls he’s been trying to lure into his lying self.
Now I’m confused as to what is happening with our relationship because still he’s always lying to me that I’m the only woman for him. I saw all pics and messages before I confronted him but he still denying and asking me to forget about it.
I don’t know what to do as I love this guy and my papers are in process to travel together to Nigeria in December. This is a Yahoo Yahoo guy, mind you. Meanwhile, he’s telling the other lady get her documents ready to come here in South Africa.
Right now, I’m in his house and he’s not home yet, even though I have my own apartment.
What you see now will not change when you get married. He is not sure what or who he wants. And it seems neither are you. Do you want to be this dis-respected all the time. Can you love a man who does not take your feelings into account. Take a short recess. Do not be drawn in by the nephews and nieces and good relationship you may have with his family members (who you have not even met yet), you are not in a relationship with them and you will not marry them.
Some girls way of doing things, I do not understand. How can you still be with a guy like that? Smh.
This is lost and obsession not love, you are being beclouded by emotions. The earlier you put your acts together and move on, the better for you.
recieve sense now! amen!!! u see all d signs and u still waiting waitn for what?if I may ask.he is a serial cheat do u wanna marry him n keep comin here for advice?i realy dnt understand us ladies