Dear MIMsters: Is it Normal For A Guy Like Him Not to Know What He Wants
I’ve been dating this guy for 4 years now. He is 28 and working while I’m 24.
He has introduced himself to my parents and I have also met his. The problem is that now, he is saying that we should wait till 2020 before we get married.
I have not agreed to that because there is this girl in his life whom he has refused to let go. We had a quarrel yesterday about the girl but he didn’t feel like he has done anything wrong.
I told him I can’t wait for 3 years when there is another lady also. I said a lot of things and told him he doesn’t love me. He said each time I tell him that he doesn’t love me that it makes his love for me get colder.
He doesn’t know how to talk to me without us quarreling. He loves me but he is just been indecisive.
What should I do? Is it normal for a guy his age not to know what he wants? I really love him but I don’t know what to do.
Time waster. If you can, leave him before he breaks your heart.
if he doesn’t know what he walk away.he should be able to decide who n what he wants
Really? Someone is keeping a girl and refusing to let go and you are here hoping to get married to him and he will continue with her as side chic, good luck.