Dear MIMsters: Was I Wrong to Confront My Husband Over This?

I am married with two children. Recently, I had to confront my husband over an issue troubling me. Was I wrong?

Due to the nature of hubby’s job (he works in a telecommunication company) hubby lives in the western part of the country, while I live in Kaduna with the children.

I found out that hubby was cheating on me with a neighbour when our marriage was barely 2 years old. After all his pleas, he promised not to indulge in such act again.

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Only for me to discover lately, a teller which is an evidence that he sent money to this same girl. When I confronted him ,he asked me if it was my money he sent to her. I was so sad and thought it wise to start saving as I might be caught unawares.

I went to visit him with the kids in the west only to discover the packet of condoms we used the last time I visited weren’t there anymore. When I confronted him, he said and I quote, “why are you always searching for things? What do you intend to achieve?”

My fellow Mimsters, is it a crime to ask questions when you don’t understand what is happening around you, especially in a marriage?

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Please let me also use this medium to tell my great sisters that I am job hunting. I’m a graduate of business administration and also have a PGD in Entrepreneurship.