Dear MIMsters: I Want More Children But My Unfaithful Husband Has Issues

This should be my fourth post about my unfaithful husband. I just want to say a big thank you all for all your comments. It has really helped me with some issues.

There was a time I shared how my husband said he will expose our secret and implicate me because we had a fight. He asked me to fake a pregnancy, and nine months later we adopted a child. He asked me to send my niece and my nephew that has been staying with me for years away, and also refused to make love to me. With help of God, later, we settled.

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I am however, still disturbed. It’s almost 3 years now that we made love last. I complained to my eldest sister, she said that if he doesn’t make a move that, I should make the move. I did that, but my husband was just lying there (so soft). Sex is not the issue, I want us to keep trying to see if I can get pregnant.

Now he lavishes me with gifts, he even bought a very expensive car for me recently. This is not my problem; I need more children. What baffles me most, is that he has girlfriends. I stumbled on his international passport recently, he has gone to Kenya thrice, South Africa twice and USA once. He never mentioned it to me. He works and lives in Jos, while I live Lagos. He comes to Lagos every 2 weeks

I’m confused and hurt. I feel like quitting the marriage. Please help me.