Dear MIMsters: My Cheating Boyfriend Cheated On Me With….Me.
Dear MIMsters, my story is not unheard off, but I need advice on how to deal with this issue involving my cheating boyfriend.
I am a 25-year-old single parent. I started a new relationship last December. After I had sex with him, he began to ignore me and make me feel like I was forcing myself on him. He forgot about my birthday and all he could say was “sorry”.
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Few days after, he requested that I visit him one night, we are in a distant relationship. The night I was supposed to visit, I called him several times but he didn’t pick my calls. He later whatsapped me and I told him I was almost there, all he could say was “am outta town”.
He didn’t bother to call again to even check on my safety. He whatsapped the next day around noon and was like “hey, where you at” but I ignored his message. I felt insecure after that incident. A plan dropped in my mind, and I set him up by chatting with on my private number. I did that continuously for three days and he proposed to me. He said that he has been single for the past two years and has also stayed away from sex for two years.
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He said all these without knowing I was the one he was chatting with. I told him I wanted to call him so I could hear his sweet voice. and before I could call, he called. When he heard my voice, he hung up. He has been apologizing ever since then that he loves me and means it. He wants me to give him a second chance, but I feel betrayed and something tells me he only wants my company. What do I do please ?
Just because he slept with you once, you think you are in a relationship? My dear, men have sex and woman make love.
I wonder what you are doing with this guy, the handwriting is clear on the wall. Pls why are you selling yourself so cheap, where is your self-esteem? After showing you all the signs that you are just a one night stand, you’re still running after him.
Stop making SEX the first step to a relationship, let the man show some commitment first.
Pls forget about him and work on building your self esteem
Amen sister!!!Amen. Want to be your friend ???? ton point bang!!!!!!!!!!
Leave. Its still a relationship
Break up with him. A guy that can tell you he is out of town when you are close doesn’t love you so please break up and move on.