Dear MIMsters: Am I Being A Fool For Love?

I am in a very confused state right now. Am I being fool for love?

I’m 32-year-old and a single mother of one. I am also a Bsc holder but currently running a small scale business.

I have been into a relationship with this guy who is also a single parent for the past 10 months. I have met with virtually every member of his family except his father whom I have spoken with through my guy’s phone. He has introduced me to his family as the one he wants to marry and they have accepted me.

But here are the problems that I am having with him: he has refused to meet with any member of my family. This has caused disagreement between us on several occasions.

Secondly, there is the issue of this particular girl he said is his ex (not the mother of his kids o). He has told me that he has nothing to do with her anymore, yet they call each other every day. I see her reassuring him of her love for him. I’m tired of complaining about this issue, yet he doesn’t want to leave her.

I don’t know whether he is fooling me. I need advice on how to go about this whole thing.