Dear MIMsters: Is This Enough Reason To Initiate a Break Up?

Is this enough reason to initiate a break up?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and we love each other.

The problem is that he smokes weed often. I have cried, begged and spoken to him to stop but instead, he lied to me that he has stopped.

He had asked me to give him sometime and I agreed. I have never seen him smoke, I’ve only seen the wraps in the trash and ashes on his floor which he tries very hard to hide.w

When I show him these evidences, he tells me it was a friend. I’ve even initiated a break up with him due to this issue but he would beg and tell people to beg me on his behalf. I do not know what else to do.

He claims his mum is aware. My mum likes him but she does not know he smokes weed. If she does, she won’t be supportive of our relationship. I am worried about our future. What kind of role model will he be to our kids? Not that I’m aware of any crime he has committed under the influence.

He thinks smoking weed isn’t dangerous but I know it is not lawful in my country. I broke up with him again and all he could say is he is tired of me breaking up with him over this. I just want to know if I did the right thing to break up with him. If not, I am ready to go apologise and reconcile with him.