Dear MIMsters: Am I The Only One Who Feels This Way About My Husband’s Calls?

Am I the only one who feels this way about my husband’s calls?

I have been confused as to what to do in this situation. I don’t want to make a big deal out of this by telling friends. I don’t want my husband to be looked at in a certain way.

When I met my husband, communication was never a problem. He would always call or text or chat and I did the same.

When he was transferred to Lagos after my daughter was born five years ago, I noticed he was always online but wouldn’t chat with me. I never bothered because he called at least once a day. Then we finally came to live with him.

This continued for a while, while I was ALWAYS the one initiating the chat. Whenever I asked him, he always said he was busy to chat that sometimes he just comes online for the sake of it. I’ve checked his phone many times and I’ve seen that he chats with other people especially girls.

Recently, he’s been finding it easier to stay back at work with the excuse that his workload is too much and won’t come home late at night for fear of bad guys on the road. He didn’t come home throughout last week and managed to call just twice.

Dear Mimsters, I want to know, can you if their husbands can go a whole day without calling to check on his family. Is it normal? Let me state here that he works in an office not a place where calls can’t be made. Please I need this posted urgently so I know what I can do. Thanks for this platform. God bless you.