Dear MIMsters: Will Cheating on My Husband Justify this Emotional Stress?
Will cheating on my husband justify this emotional stress that he’s putting me through?
Something happened this morning when I was in the car with my husband.
He was on the phone speaking with a female lawyer who is helping us some legal work regarding our business.
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He asked her, “How was your night dear, how is this how is that…..? ”
When the conversation ended, I asked him, “so the lawyer is your dear now?”
This is not the first time of hearing him pass some suggestive statements to her. I just decided to confront him this afternoon. The next thing he said was can’t he call someone dear again. I asked him when last did he call me dear.
That was it oh. Come and hear all manner of things he said. He said why will he call me dear, that he’s just managing me, imagine that, he asked what have I contributed to his life.
This is a man I met when he was in the University. I assisted him in my own little way in terms of money and food, even when he couldn’t get a job. Now that has two houses, plots of land, a very big organic farm with workers, 4 vehicles, he’s managing me.
He kept on talking and I told him that I’m not happy because of his attitude towards me. His response was that I should remain unhappy for all he cares.
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I have endured not been made love to for almost 3 years now. I’ve been trying not to cheat on him, yet he accuses me of infidelity. Maybe I should even cheat on him now to justify why I am going through this emotional stress.
What do I do now?
Don’t allow him reduce you to what you are not. You either divorce him or start ignoring him to live for yourself and long.
As far as am concerned you people ain’t married anymore, you have been separated for the past three years you stop being intimate. Haba!!!!! This is not marriage oh, you’re just room mates. It’s better you hire a lawyer to help you get some share of what you have worked for together and live your life as a single woman.