Dear MIMsters: I Don’t Know What to Do After Making These Disturbing Discoveries About My Husband

After making these disturbing discoveries about my husband, I don’t know what else to do. I’m the woman who narrated how my husband lost interest in me after I gave birth. Read here.

Apparently, he’s been cheating on me just like someone suggested in the comment section on the day it was posted. I noticed he’s been so protective of his phone so much that he even takes it along with him to the shower.

Let me not forget to mention that when we flew to Nigeria for the holidays, he never once took me out. Instead, he would tell me to go look for my friends.

Well, I wanted to know what was behind his sudden change because our marriage is on the verge of crashing as we don’t communicate anymore but he took his phone with him everywhere.

When we got back to our base abroad, he started dropping his phone at home because he couldn’t take two phones to work. Lo and behold, I saw what I was looking for… I found out that my dear husband had slept with none less than 12 women within that our 1 month holiday in Nigeria. Everthing he had stopped doing for me, he was doing for these women.

What shocked me the most was one of the women he fucked was living behind our rented apartment. Those girls are about 8 of them living in a two bedroom flat. They are known as runs girls. Infact, my own brother has smashed this particular girl once for just just 10k.

Meanwhile my husband fucked her raw, without using protection. He never had sex with me while we were in Nigeria but he we had sex when we got to our base. After that, my pussy was so on fire like fresh pepper was poured in it.

I am so scared to my bones right now as I’m about to go for a health test. He asked me what right I have to check his phone!

Below are some of the chats I saw on his phone.

After confronting him, my husband actually apologized and I said I should do ‘shakara’ small because he knows I’m very hurt but he flipped. He said he apologized because my sister told him to do so, that I should go ahead to do my worst.

He said he would call my parents and his on a conference call and tell them his intentions. He said he’s gonna forfeit my application and I can go back to Nigeria with my baby and he seized my phone. I am not working yet because my baby is still breastfeeding and I don’t have any friends here. I came here about 14 months ago.

I eventually apologized to him not because of anything but because I didn’t want him to call my mum as she’s hypertensive and she takes things like this to heart. How do I handle this?