Dear MIMsters: Given My History With Relationships, Should I Settle For Mr. Oga?

I am 28 years old will be turning 29 in February. Given my history with relationships, should I settle for Mr. Oga?

I dated my Ex for 6 years but when we started our wedding preparations, we discovered that we were both AS and the wedding was called off. It was a terrible experience that I do not even wish it for my enemy, if I have any, that is.

For over two years, I have been off and on different relationships, probably because they don’t meet the standard of my ex or I discover they already have a lady in their lives.

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Early this year, I met a guy on FB who from comes from my town and we both started off well. He later opened up and told me he has a daughter and that turned me off. After hearing all that happened, I decided to give him a trial and I discovered he’s everything that I have been asking God for.

Four months into the relationship, he called me at night via a video call, (he lives in Ghana while I live in Nigeria) and told me he has been worried about something. He said that he loves me so much and doesn’t want to lose me because of his secret he’s been keeping. Oga later opened up and told me that he has a son who’s a few months old. That night was the longest night in my life.

He called several times telling me he’s no longer with his baby mama and all sorts of stories. I was already in love with him, so I decided not to break up with him.

He invited to come over to Ghana to celebrate Christmas and I accepted his invitation. At his home, I couldn’t find any trace of the woman and her son but he showed me where she lives. It is an hour, 30 minutes drive from his. Three days later, he told me that the woman was visiting Nigeria to be with her family.

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I really don’t want to be the reason for another woman’s pain. I don’t know if I should continue with this relationship or call it off. I’ve see her always posting his pictures on Facebook, calling him her husband. Her profile pictures and everything is about him, so I know she loves him. But Oga is saying he’s not going to marry her because she cheated on him and someone another man has claimed that the baby belongs to him. I saw a text to confirm this.

Kindly advise me on what to do.