Television Personality, Shade Ladipo Schools Ladies On Attributes To Find In A Man
Television personality, Shade Ladipo, has taken to her Instagram page – in a long post- to school ladies on the attributes to look out for when choosing a man to settle down with.
This, obviously is coming on the heels of Gbenro Ajibade‘s outburst about his wife on social media.
The television producer once claimed to have walked out of a relationship even though they have had family introductions, but when she realized he was wrong for her, she broke up with him and chose who she felt was right for her; they walked down the aisle in 2018.
Through her post, Shade pleaded with ladies not to marry down. She begged them to stop putting themselves under undue pressure to get married and then end up settling with a loser who will be threatened every time they something extraordinary out of their lives. She concluded that ladies should neither marry down nor marry up, but settle with the right man for them.
Read her full post below:
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“Usually I do a video but I decided to save you from my ugly mug today
My Musings is about Marrying Up or Marrying Down
While I will focus on Marrying down, in my opinion Marrying Up also has its huge challenges
I’m pained when I see amazing, hardworking and determined women try to be put down by Society, Culture and then by Family
Family in this case is your spouse
Pls do not put yourself under any undue pressure to get married and then end up with a loser who will be threatened every time you breatheYour calling is great and the man you marry must be able to take it and run with it
You need a man who understands that he must be your champion on and off the field
A man who is ready to be in the shadows so you can shine
Most women are ready to do this for their men so My dear pls don’t for 1 second think you don’t deserve such
Also pls let me debunk the lies ….
The man who will love you and worship you is waiting for you, don’t allow anyone fool you into believing that your Age or Stage will reduce those chances
Cock & Bull
Your chances are as high as YOU want them
Your self confidence and Self love will attract exactly the kind of man you deserve
There is no Marriage O’Clock and if pikin is your worry then Freeze your eggs or Adopt
Your happiness and Peace should always be Number 1
Don’t settle for anything less
Don’t Marry Down
Don’t Marry Up
Marry your Partner
Someone who sees you
Someone who accepts you
Someone who wants you to do better than him
Someone who loves you more than himself
I always felt She was Marrying Down and from that illiterate rant, I was right
#YouAreAmazingAndAwesome
#DontLetAnyoneTellYouOtherwise
#YouAreBlackGirlMagic
#ShadeHasSpoken”
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Gbenro Ajibade seems to have stepped on a cobra’s tail and I bet he did not prepare for all he is being served for his action.