Youth Advocate, Betty Nwabunike Causes Quite A Stir On Twitter Over Her Piece Of Advice To Women: ‘It’s “Responsible” To Live With Your Parents Till A Man Marries You’
A woman has stirred up a debate online after a post she shared on her Twitter handle.
In a series of tweets, the woman, @betty_nwabunike gave out some pieces of advice to ladies as regards life after school and the need to get a good and responsible soulmate.
The woman told women who are through with university that it is wrong for them to live on their own. In her opinion, ladies should go back to their parents house after passing out of the university while stressing that this is the fastest and surest way to get a good and responsible husband.
In the tweet, she said:
“As a lady Once you finish your University, it’s very WRONG to go live alone, better you go back home until you find yourself a good man .its fastest that way and more responsible.”
She went further to question the decision of some ladies who desire to live alone after university as she asked what use is a house to a lady without a husband.
“What is the use building a home without a husband?,” she asked.
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The woman who refers to herself as the “voice of the youth” further urged ladies to make themselves readily available for marriage at any given time to avoid regrets in the future.
“Ladies stop deceiving yourself please. Don’t be carried away by the lies of media. You need a man. You need a good man to marry you. You are called out to be a mother also.
“50 years down the line old, childless and husbandless you star crying and wishing you did not play hard to get.”
Read the full thread:
”As a lady Once you finish your University, it’s very WRONG to go live alone, better you go back home until you find yourself a good man, it is fastest that way and more responsible.
See let me tell those ladies saying what if they have a good job. Can’t you have a good job, save your money and stay at home. What’s the use building a home without a husband. Understood, that you May get a good job in a different state or country. But living in d same state?
Ladies stop deceiving yourself pls. Don’t be carried away by the lies of media You need a man You need a good man to marry you. You are called out to be a mother also. 50 years down the line old, childless and husbandless you star crying and wishing you did not play hard to get.
Funny thing about life, you see a tweet U see D angle the writer is coming from Yet you come from another angle to attack. I know there are other reasons why a lady. after schooling should live alone & sort out her life. There are also other cases that they need to go back home.”
As a lady Once you finish your University, it's very WRONG to go live alone , better you go back home until you find yourself a good man .its fastest that way and more responsible.
— Betty Nwabunike (@betty_nwabunike) March 17, 2021
