‘How Do You Tell A Father That Was Present For The First Babies Steps To Move On?’ -OAP Do2dtun Laments In Moving Father’s Day Note To Self
On-air-personality, Kayode Ojuolape Oladotun aka Do2dtun, has penned an emotional note to himself on the occasion of this year’s Father’s Day.
Recall that the media person has been making headlines for some months now as he grapples with his attempts to gain access to his children.
He has been publicly vocal about his frustrations and has accused both his ex-wife, Taiwo Oyebanjo her family members, especially her brother, D’banj, of obstructing his visitation rights to his two kids.
In 2022, Dotun’s wife filed for a divorce over alleged domestic violence and emotional abuse. The former couple got married in 2013 and the marriage produced two children.
Taking to Instagram on Sunday, June 16, 2024, he shared videos showing heartwarming moments with his two daughters, asking how he is expected to move on after having been with his children right from their first steps.
He also called out his ‘gullible peers’ who never cared to his side of the story before judging him.
In his words:
“How do U tell a FATHER that was present for the first baby steps to move on? sadly I can’t find Fife’s baby steps cos it got lost with my other phone,” he wrote.
How do you tell a FATHER that shared a bond with his daughters to accept a plot that was selfish all in the name to mar me and destroy my character to stop talking?
How do U tell a FATHER that paid every bill from inception till the time they were stolen away from me to let go and move on ?
How do U tell a FATHER who was present at all times, who found a few of the schools they go to and was present even at time when I was away either through zoom or physical to move on?
How do you tell a FATHER who was present to take only phone calls as your means of communication to children you birthed ?
How do you convince a FATHER to accept lies, false accusations and leave it to God?
How do you blackmail or convince a FATHER that was completely goofy, very intuitive, never wanted to be part of a bandwagon of ignorance; never wanted to be part of shady practices or buy battles of evil but the only way to punish me is take my kids away to let go ?
How do tell a FATHER who puts his family before anyone to let go ?
How do you tell a FATHER that keeps fighting for what is right to stop fighting?
I can go on and on but I am not the FATHER that will be judged cos of his public persona of “SPEAKING THE TRUTH OR BEING EDGY” as your weapon to label me against my DAUGHTERS or meaningful people who still cared to listen to the real story and my struggle.
As for my gullible peers who never ever called to even hear my side but be a judge cos of what you will eat “YOU WILL NEVER KNOW PEACE” .. KO NI DA FUN YIN.. I no join una setting hence why some of you didn’t care even when I cared for all your careers.
I hate a system that allows money & power to be their bedrock of achievements over goodwill. I am not that type of “FATHER”
I don’t live my life without proof cos I don’t want to be a father whose foundation was made to conform to what the society believes it should be.
My DM is full with broken FATHERS but I am not ashamed & I am not broken anymore. I AM JUST AN INTENTIONAL FATHER.
HAPPY FATHERS DAY OLADOTUN.. YOU TRY.”
