X-User Narrates How Her Mom Encouraged Her Sister To Dissolve Her Marriage After The Husband Rescinded On The Promise He Made To Them Before Marriage
A lady has narrated how her mother encouraged her sister’s marriage to “scatter” after the husband tried to stiffle her career.
Narrating the story on X, the sister @KhadijaGarba19 explained that there was a verbal agreement between her family and the man that her sister would further her education and work when they get married.
However, he went back on the first promise but the mother encouraged her daughter to stay.
When he tried to go back on the second promise by suggesting his wife quits her job, the woman’s mother stepped in and pushed for the “scattering of the marriage.”
The X user wrote:
“When my sister wanted getting married, there was a verbal agreement that she’ll further her education & also work between my family and the said man. Few months into marriage, she got Msc form & started chasing admission.
“When she got the admission, this man said ‘NO!’. My Mom pacified my sister since it’s second degree and that she should wait till at least a year. That was how she wasted money for form & acceptance fee.
“Few months later, this man proposed she quit her job since it’s not like she’s giving him the salary to share & do as he pleases.
“In conclusion, my Mom encouraged the marriage scattering herself. How she go sponsor Pharmacy, a whole five years professional course which extended to nine years for my sister thanks to ASUU & not making Dispensing twice and not work???? God forbid!
“My sister is about to become a PhD holder while being a lecturer too.”
Reacting to the move of the mother,
@Muna Sapphire wrote:
They will make you financial handicap, and later treat you as a piece of shit, don’t even allow that.
@Sandra added:
I swear, sharp mother! How do you promise someone something before marriage and fail to keep it after marriage? A lot of men are guilty of this. My dad did same to my mother. It is totally unfair to do this to anyone’s daughter, knowing very well that when you have your own daughter by this same woman, you will want the best for her. Shame on men that do this to their wives.
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@Babby20 commented:
The mum did the right thing… very wicked man… instead of him to use the fact that he married a prof to better his life and his children.. he decided to stifle her because of his useless pride. All the wahala a parent does on a child then someone will try to stifle them and say don’t look back or talk to your family… please please and please.
@Anniebaby:
Most marriages fail because most men pretend to be woke and not communicate their intentions. If he had a traditional mind set, why didn’t he say it and then marry a school drop out who would be happy being a house wife. That man is a stupid man.
@babygirlforlife:
Your mum is a legend. This is the reason why most marriages crash. Rescinding on your promises. The guy never meant well for her.
@TheGreat:
My love to your Mother. I, not even my wife, would do same for our daughters or nieces or siblings. This badly behaved permanent kids and boys can never be men and are unfit to be husbands so they should remain unmarried and practice their ideologies on themselves.
