Bride-To-Be Whose Mum Stole £20,000 of Her Inheritance Says Mum is Dead To Her
Denvar Bathie, who was left devastated when her mum stole £20,000 of her inheritance, has told how she will never forgive her criminal-minded mum for the ultimate betrayal.
The bride-to-be, 23 had been planning her wedding with partner Chris McKellar, 24, when her thieving mother Trudy Collins used her bank card to purchase luxury items such as new hot tub.
Speaking on ITV’s This Morning, Denvar admitted she wouldn’t want to speak to her mum if she ever got in touch to apologise for stealing the money left by her dad Mike – as well as savings from her wages – who passed away in 2013.
Asked what she’d say, she responded: “Nothing. Why would she be sorry now when she wasn’t sorry putting the card in like it was going out of fashion?”
She revealed the pair no longer have a relationship after Trudy – who falsely promised she would keep her daughter’s bank card and pin safe in the attic – was charged with theft at Preston Crown Court.
She was sentenced to 12 months in jail, on a two-year suspended sentence, along with 150 hours unpaid work and a fine of £100.
Denvar was only alerted to the cruel actions after her bank’s fraud team contacted her – and it hurt even more considering how close she was to her mum before the incident.
She admitted: “She was my best friend. We were really close. We went shopping, on nights out, movies nights in.”
She recently opened up to the Mirror about what happened, and insisted she has now “lost two” parents.
Denvar said: “When dad died I thought my life was over. Losing one parent is bad enough, but now I have lost two. After everything she has done, my mum is dead to me.”
Think she’s overreacting?
Source: mirror.co.uk
Aww sad to have Mum betray one.
How can a mum betray her own daughter? hummmmmm- she took advantage- let her spend some time behind bar. My mother wunt try this mess
Hmmmm ow on earth can a mom betray her own daughter?
I don’t think she is over reacting, I just feel with time she would overcome it…. its really painfully you know? and it hurts
it really hurt. it will hurt more than a betrayal from a husband. we all think mother is a person to run apart from God when no other is there for us… and it should be so!
Hnmmmm real wahala but saying she would neva forgive her mom is like kiping herself in bondage till she forgves n let go. Hv learnt dat unforgiving heart hurt more dan de culprit’s own instead so she nid to forgv n free her mind frm hatred cus we do sin evryday yet God forgvs. But de mom fuck up n deserve any punishment bestowed on her
I don’t think she’s over reacting. She’s just pained at the moment. She will come around later am sure
Shiz not with time the pain will heal i pray they reconcil even though what her mum did unimaginablelets wait and see
She did not over react.her mum does not have her best interest at heart so why call her a mother
She is over reacting though very painful to b betrayd by ones mum. I beliv with time, d wounds will b heald.
How can a mother betray her own daughter, she is not overreacting but then I think she should just 4give her so dat her pain will heal on time.
Some mothers self, my dear just forgive ur mum n let go.
Pls forgive her o! Some mothers can be unbearable, but what can u do na, some mothers do worst.
No, she’s not overreacting. I support her on that
even the bible says that people will be lovers of money.
this is one of the good example Jesus was talking about.
tak heart sweet and forgiv your mother
No she’s nt over reacting cos is nt only abt the money bt the trust
This is a betrayal of the highest order
Nawa oh
She sure is overreacting. What her mother did was bad bt she has been punished enough. She should let it go
It must have hurt her real bad cuz she was probably saving the money for something only for her mom to go and spend the money on shopping spree. She should forgive her and move on
Mothers should have the interest o their kids at heart 100%, betrayal from a loved one is horrible and unimaginable.
What money can cause