Husband Beats Bride On Their Wedding Night Because He Couldn’t Get Her Dress Off
New bride, Amy Dawson, 22, who married her long term partner, Gavin Golightly in a dream wedding in August last year was viciously assaulted by her groom on their wedding night because he couldn’t take her dress off.
Mirror UK reports;
The newlyweds retired to their room after a reception with friends and family following the party at a country hotel.
It was then, only hours after making their marriage vows, that 29-year-old Golightly launched a terrifying attack on his bride when she asked for help in taking her wedding dress off.
The argument broke out after he was unable to help her out of the dress, and he then threw her to the floor before launching the attack that left her with a cut eyebrow and a bruised face and chest.
Golightly claimed that he had been drugged before the attack and could not remember any of the incident, but he later admitted a single count of assault causing actual bodily harm at Peterlee Magistrates Court.
He was handed a community order for the outburst, but Amy, who has a child with Golightly, said the punishment was not harsh enough.
Amy said: “When I first met Gavin, he was lovely, I couldn’t fault him. He was caring and loving, and when we found we were having baby, we were delighted. I fell pregnant after eight months, but almost straight away, Gavin became controlling and manipulative. It was like walking on eggshells. When he lashed out at me on my wedding night, I thought I was going to die. I was terrifed. He looked like he was going to kill me. After the attack, he left the room and I tried to escape, but he came back in and continued to beat me. Eventually, I escaped and found a hotel porter, who called the police. It was such a lovely day, and I was devastated it ended the way it did. It was a huge celebration full of friends and family, and I thought it would have been the fresh start we needed. The community order was far too soft. The restraining order is the only thing keeping me strong. He means nothing to me now.”
The former sweethearts married at St Mary’s Church in West Rainton, County Durham before moving on to Beamish Hall for their party, which turned out to be the settingfor the horrifying attack.
Amy, an accountancy student, has since filed for divorce.
Prosecutor Sarah Traynor said: “At 12.55am, the following morning, they went to their room, which she was helped towards by a night porter. The defendant then tried to undo Ms Dawson’s dress. She received a crochet [to undo the dress with], but the defendant then refused to undo his new wife’s dress. The defendant then jumped up from his chair, approached Ms Dawson and pushed her over. He then sat on top of her and started punching her with clenched fists. He then got up and left the room. It appears that the defendant then came back to the room. The defendant said he has no recollection of the event, adding that he must have had his drink spiked. He remembers waking up in a hotel room and said he does not get angry when he takes drugs. Ms Dawson had a cut above her left eyebrow and some bruises to her face and chest area.”
Robin Ford, defending Golightly, from Sunderland, told the court: “Given the cathartic process that this has been for him, I think he could well come back and get this order taken off early.”
Chairman of the bench Paul Elliott, told Golightly: “You do know that when your custody report was asked for, custody was an option because this was a serious assault. But your early guilty plea and mitigation mean that we will give you a 24-month community order with the requirement of supervision.”
Golightly was also given a restraining order prohibiting him from contacting Ms Dawson directly or indirectly.
He was also ordered to pay £200 in compensation to her, £85 costs and a £60 victim surcharge.
what was supposed to be the happiest day turned into fight. hum- whats wrong with our young generation?
That man is a beast in human form. Beat your new bride because u coudnt take her clothes off? Where is the patience man?
She has a functional brain by filing for divorce.She might not be alive to tell d story when next he attacks
The guy is having brain fag, it’s a good thing she found out on time.
Hehehe! !! See wahala. Thank God he is showing his real self quite on time.
On their wedding night?thats too bad mehn!that man is something else. Shm!
Dat man is sick n most b on drugs. Tank God she is leaving him.
This is just the beginning ooo,she better make a decision whether to be beaten like this for the rest of her life or leave and have peace of mind.
Hmmm,really a wolf in sheeps clothing.
Thank God she filed for divorce than hoping he will change which might get her dead before he changes. Glad women are getting wiser and saying NO to domestic abuse especially
He must have been beating her long before that day…….and she chose to stay…Thank God she is wiser now before he kills her
I am very happy for her that she left him immediately
Wedding night! Omg. This man is senseless. Thank God she filed in for Divorce.
Mental problem
Thank God she escaped alive. If it were here the woman will be aske to pray and cook meals with cowleg and cowtail. Mtchew
She thought they were gonna hv a fresh start after marriage, rubbishb I wonder wen women will negin to realise marriage won’t change a man. A man beats u, cheats on u, is stingy towards u, yet u feel he’ll change after marriage. Ok nau!!
God forbid. Thank God she’s alive to tell the story.
Omg,wat.tnk God she filled for divorce,
May we not see this one.
It’s well o….. Wickedness
Stupid man.am happy the wife had enough sense to ask for a divorce cos some ladies wl stay back& make excuses for the man till it gets late
arrant nonsense
Speechless ke
The guy must be high or something. Its good she filed for divorce, on wedding night when he is supposed to be smooching her all over.na wa
God forbid
Hehehehehe he must be high or something..maybe he don wait for the thing tire ooo
Mental case… Thank God for divorce….
So sad, after a glamorous wedding. Good thing she has left him.
On their wed night? Dat man must be insane..! Dis is saddenning.
That is one of the effect of drugs
Am glad she acted immediately.Some will stay till they are left with one eye or dead
Wonders shall never end