Dear MIMsters: Please Tell Me What To Believe After Finding These Incriminating Evidence With My Husband
My husband is trying to make me think otherwise after discovering these incriminating evidence.
Just a few days ago my hubby returned from Easter travel. So, as a good wife I decided to unpack his bag the following day. When he returned, I didn’t say anything about it although the issue has been bugging me plus I’m a few weeks pregnant. The funny thing was when he saw the unpacked bag he said, “this one you brought out these clothes, I don’t want to wash them now.’
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That statement was strange to me only for me to find condoms in his bag.
In fact on the day he returned he was EXTRA nice (mind you, he’s nice), bought things from an eatery which I alone couldn’t even finish. Within me, I knew that something was different about that journey.
The Thursday of the same week, he started to pack again for another journey. This time around for a purpose which I know about.
I was uneasy, my heart racing. He was in the room so I couldn’t check the bag. As soon as he left for the bathroom, he had packed in another bag. I opened the small zip, to see the condoms he returned safely stored up in this present bag. I almost fainted, because I wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt.
We’ve been married for almost 2 years and it hurts so much. So that same night I decided to help his new ministry by getting 3 more condoms and placed them inside his bag.
The following day as he journeyed, I sent him a text saying, “I hope the condoms would be more than enough for your new relationship.”
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I received the most senseless text ever. “Oh baby, I wouldn’t cheat on you before God and man. I got them from my cousin (who is actually married, wife is presently heavy) and it doesn’t mean anything. Please house, tell me what to believe? I haven’t cried, I’m not the emotional type. But hugely disappointed and betrayed.
hmmmm,wat else cn I tell u,if ur hubby is gettin nd usin protection I must say u ar lucky,bcus sum men do raw nt mindin,pls just commit him into Gods hands nd dnt over stress urself abt dy issue bcus of ur condition
sorry cheatin
He’s cheating dear and lying to you. Sorry about it. Take your mind off it so as to give yourself peace and for the sake of your baby.
My dear please focus on yourpregnancy now, your husband is cheating and lying,dont allow that to weigh you down right now cos of your condition.Be praying for him, he might change someday!
U have given him a go ahead instead of confronting him immediately
He’s chaeting my sister
he is cheatn.no doubt
Definitely cheating and lying. Confront him nd pour ur heart nd then leave it at that. These men think they are doing their wives, not knowing they Re causing problems for themselves and God will judge them at last
He’s lying to u
Hmm….he is definitely cheating on you dear…just handle things calmly. When he gets back, sit him down and tell him you know what’s happening n he should put an end to this relationship
help him count d condoms wen he comes bk.dey must b cmplete
He’s cheating of course but I think he is just new @the game which was y he was feeling guilty&was buying treats for u.I suggest you guys talk about it dont shout for ur health&for it not to get out of hand&he starts hiding things&if u r the type who stops sex on account of being pregnant pls up ur game. Am not saying that is any justification for his cheating but at least give him that benefit of doubt
dnt slp wt him wtout condom Ooo so u dnt cos harm to ur child n u.I really dnt no wat is in Dis sex ting dat men cnt zip up.Na wa Ooo.Na food???haaa
Hmmmmmmmm
He is cheating, just put your mind at rest, for your baby’s sake… And take your mind of it
He’s cheating so sad men can pretend jst hand him over to God
You already know the truth,he is lying
Pls pray against every strange woman in ur hubby’s life.Pray that God shd put enmity n confusion btw him n any gal dat he tries 2 mess around with.Even if he got it frm hid cousin as he claimed,it means he is doing(or will soon do)exactly wat his cousin is doing(his cousin is married too).Pls calm down 4 ur baby’s sake eventhough its difficult
He’s def cheating! Dats jst de basic truth n u’ve got to be strong in ur condition.
My daer focus On Urself cis At Ur stage u dont need physical and emotional Stress
This one will continue lying until he’s caught red-handed.He’s now condom keeper for his cousin.Smh
He is cheating confront him calmly
He is cheating on you. He is still very new to it that’s why he even gave excuses! This is what I keep saying…… For the fact that you haven’t caught your hubby doesn’t make him a saint. When you come to realise that no matter how u cage or love a man if he still wants to cheat he will still cheat the easier way out of all these heartbreak and emotional trauma.
Hmmmm the handwriting is clear
ur hubby still has respect for u. so he lied my dear send dat daughter of distraction bk to where she deserves on ur knees
My dear, first and foremost, the truth is obvious and you know it, so stop lying to yourself but rather, see it as a phase of life and move on. From all indications, your husband loves you enough to use a condom so that you are saved from unknown STIs; he loves you enough to return home when others just go away forever; he even loves you enough to give you a good treat. My sister, sex is food for most men and you must have known what your husband’s libido is like before now. If he’s not sleeping with you because of your condition, he’s definitely going to get his satisfaction from elsewhere. Don’t confront him- you may do it wrongly and drive him further away. Stop sending him those annoying texts either. Just step up your game- look beautiful, cheerful and love him unconditionally. This will make him compare continuously until you bring him back home. Besides, your silence on the issue will drive him nuts and unable to predict what you could do next. Give yourself great peace and take care of your bump. Your greatest undoing will be to worry yourself sick and lose your baby. I pray that it does not happen. Please, take care of yourself.
Cheating tins activated…!
Is obvious
just focus on your pregnancy for now. but believe me so many men cheat. in fact cheating is their hormones.
My dear I will advice u overlook the issue and concentrate on ur health,take it to God in prayers and take ur heart away from it, if u nag to much it will get worse,with time he will realise there is no gain in it
He’s cheating dear..
Am so taking a high road on this one cos it’s so obvious that a lot of women are comfortable with a cheating husband.
Message.. My dear I just wonder ooo its as if de just love/support/even ok wt cheating husbands hnmmm may God help us all
As innn eh the way most women condone cheating, d thing tire me.
Message.. My dear its obvious
Sorry sis. since he’s new to it. talk to him and see if he can change.
Thats y i always advice ladies 2 go for guys that love them not the one they love ,you see ? ,, anyway Dnt let that bither u that much , pray 4 him , Dnt divorce or decide 2 start cheating on him 2 @ the lord will see you through sumday
All these cheating husbands, God help women
Why will he go as far as using God’s name? May God have mercy on him sha. In my own opinion I think he is cheating on you
Cheating and lying about it.
It’s bound to happen cos he is a man but I tell u ur husbands loves u because if he doesn’t he will tell u straight what u need to hear but he still denies it cos he does not want u to get hurt pls all u need do is focus on ur pregnancy and show him more care