Dear MIMsters: Ex-Husband Left Me For Another Woman, But Look At My Life Today
See my life today, years after my ex-husband left me for another woman.
My husband went from being a romantic husband to being a lunatic as I received the shocking news of him impregnating another woman.
He told my family that he didn’t love me anymore when they tried to intervene. I was glad he could be bold enough to admit that, so I left the house without picking anything except my clothes and we stopped communicating.
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In May 2015, he wedded with the same woman and it turned out that she wasn’t pregnant. I heard that the woman and her family are even the ones who sponsored the wedding.
Then, 3 weeks after wedding, he sent people to my family to apologise and say that he regrets everything he said and did to me.
Two months later, I went shopping when I felt someone grab my arm and pulled me close. It was him; looking so dirty, pale, frail and had lost weight. I felt my heart bleed but I had to contain my emotions. I just politely greeted him and told him I was busy. He begged me to have lunch with him as he had a lot to talk about. I agreed and paid for my food.
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He then opened up and confessed he is not happy with the woman he married. He said that she’s a control freak, wasteful with resources, can’t clean or cook and is pathetic in bed. He even said, “please don’t get married yet as I have plans of coming back to you.” I rebuked and told him to just teach his woman how best to love him.
He confessed his marriage with this woman is awful and feels bound. I just told him that I’m sorry he is going through this but there’s nothing I could do about it and it’s something he chose in the first place. Furthermore, my getting back with him is a big no-no!
He even asked for financial help. I told him I would only give him if we had a witness and could sign somewhere. That’s how I assisted him with $2000 USD and offered him advice on how he could do something with it. I love this man but I don’t want to have any emotional attachment with him. Besides, I have been successful without him.
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My advice goes to the women in the house. It is possible to pick up the pieces even when it seems there’s no light ahead.
You don’t need your hubby’s money to get you going. Seek God’s counsel in prayer, have a big heart, forgive and let go, keep no bitterness and it shall be well. I am vey much single by the way and very happy on my own and ofcourse with the Almighty God’s help.
Hmmm madam thank God for you. Keep rocking and don’t give up on love again.
Poster you are one strong woman. I admire you
Thank you for these cause I bet u 99 percent of women here will tel u don’t divorce oh, stay put in ur marriage n dnt let strange woman cm take ur home bla bla bla. Women make una wise up
I love you for been a strong woman. Tell this hollier than thou women de truth
God bless you.In fact u are a super woman.Some women feel their lives will end if they leave an abusive man.ln his next life,he will be reasonable
I love this and the fact that you are not going back to him. That’s what he wanted and used his mouth to say he doesn’t love you anymore. They say one doesn’t know what they ha e until they lose it . May God continue to bless you
Lioness
God bless you ma’am.
I love this. This is when some women would start starving themselves in the next of fasting and prayer for a man who is a greed, not contented with what he has. I pray most women going thru this would read this and borrow one or two things from here. May God continue to bless you dear writer.
You are a strong woman with a beautiful heart………..God bless you with a far better man
yea.most women just don’t have dat courage to start afresh.they don’t have the guts to let go.b firm n take that bold step to happiness n liberty.. n sum times all u need do is think it n u can do it
Thank God for your life what a courageous woman
He now knows better.
I love this post a lot. Ride in mama
It seems the man wants his wife back for one reason; his new woman is not what he thought she was. “Had I known comes after a misery.”
Women are trying to wisen up, if the relationship or marriage refuse salvage, then itz beta to walk out gallantly.
you are a great woman. i love your stand don’t go back
Great one there & thanks for the encouragement
It can only take a brave, strong and independent woman to make such a decision. Women please don’t sit and lay waste at home, get up and look for something doing and be independent. Just in case of rainy days.
Hmmmm…. I have experienced the same thing but mine, he packed my things out with a 9months of baby.. I have to put myself together cos I have no shoulder to cry on but now by God’s help, I am very successful with my own 3 room apartments whilst he is still in rented room and i am a very happy mum .. I love my girl soo much
Am happy fr u,i wish all women wit cheating hubbies will learn frm dis.so dat dis can serve as a lesson to such men out dere who tinks deir wives can’t do witout dem.
This is d best post ever abt women wit a cheating husband,i gbadu ur courage dear,ride on ad remain bless cos the lord will alwaz be ur strenght.Wen some women will go back blindly in de name of dey love d husband wen love is not blind.
I thank God for you my sister.You are a very courageous woman
A convinced person can achieve anything…kudos to u. we women have underestimated ourselves for so long
I urge all women and ladies not to give up when d chips are down. I like ur brave heart!
Because d woman was not what he thought, he came running to that same woman he left. I like ur big heart
Currently going through this. In the first few years of our marriage have been the finaancialy capable one gave all i have whole heartedly Now my husband is making money and says he wants a new wife because he has always wanted someone else prior to even marrying me but never had the financial capability to do so……
This is a woman who has loads if self love and self confidence. No one can hurt us unless we allow them to. Well done ma!
This is a woman who has loads of self love and self confidence. No one can hurt us unless we allow them to. Well done ma!