From A Man’s Perspective: How to Prevent Your Husband From Cheating
Felix Amos, a relationship coach, shares 7 ways to prevent your man from cheating on you, from a typical man’s point of view. Who agrees with him?
1. BE ROMANTICALLY ACTIVE
Always ensure your man is sexually satisfied. I mean get him exhausted and leave him with no energy to admire another woman. When men are sexually exhausted, they tend to be more focused and are not easily distracted.
2. SUSTAIN THE ATTRACTION
What is it that thing that attracted your man to you? Whatever it is, keep it alive. The problem with most ladies is that after marriage they tend to lose that power of attraction after they become wives. Whatever made a man fall in love with you is the same thing that will keep him in love, so ensure you don’t lose that because that’s the fundamental upon which your relationship is built.
3. LOOK BEAUTIFUL ALWAYS
Let your man be so proud and bold enough to boast about your beauty and sense of style. Don’t allow domestic affairs or chores make you look like a house maid. You must also know when to wear what. Be extremely sexy when it’s bedtime. I mean do all you can to seduce your man frequently. Don’t always wait for him to demand for sex, make him demand for it.
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4. NEVER REPLACE YOUR HUSBAND WITH KIDS
Couples tend to be drawn apart with the birth of each child. The woman spends more time with the kids making the man jealous and lonely. Every man secretly wants to spend time with their wives just as it was before the kids were born. So, the woman must try to balance children’s affair with husband’s affair. Remember, your husband is the bone of your bone and flesh of your flesh. He needs that companionship. Marriage is not all about the kids, take care of the emotions and the friendship too.
5. AVOID NAGGING
Men don’t like staying around women who nag. They may choose to spend more time outside so as to avoid being nagged. This exposes them to women out there ready to welcome them into their arms and shower them with love. Once a man begins to appreciate the attitude of another woman over his wife, especially one with whom he has peace of mind and care, he becomes lost to her. Give him peace, show him care.
6. VAGINA ISSUES
Every woman should endeavor to keep their vagina tight to give their man maximum pleasure. This is one of the major reason why first time cheating husbands have the tendency to continue -when they find out that another woman is more sexually fulfilling than their wives. Childbirth, majorly slackens the vagina’s elasticity but there are exercises that can help in such cases. Remember, these are what those ladies out there do to ensure that men who cross their part wish for more.
7. BURY EVERY QUARREL WITH SEX
This is the most difficult, yet the most safe guarding. Wives should endeavour to see that a quarrel doesn’t crossover the night to the next day. The longer a quarrel lasts, the more room you allow the devil. If a couple can overlook quarrels and make love, they will end up singing a different song. Through sexual intimacy, two flesh truly becomes one. It settles quarrels like magic.
Do you all agree with Felix Amos? Are these tips realistic and can they truly prevent a man from cheating?
This is very very unrealistic. These are the kinda advice some mothers are still giving to their daughters that makes no sense. Why is it that the woman is the one subjected to a lot of stress to keep an adult man from misbehaving???? What effort is the randy he-goat making to make himself a better person??? I believe in keeping fit, looking nice, smelling good, keeping the romance alive et al. But at the end of the day, some women will tell you that after doing all these and more that their man is still cheating, so how about that??? Every married man is matured and old enough to zip up and keep himself for the wife, if he decides to cheat, there’s absolutely nothing you can do to make him stop. So women, live your lives and be happy and stop living your lives for the men. Period!!!!1
I concur with sandra.africans can kill themselves for men.marriage is a union of a man n woman so the two should as well work together to keep it.
Sandra my sister, you hit the nail. Thank you.
true talk.
Ok o
Sandra God bless you ma’am. Very unrealistic indeed Mtscheeeeeeewwww. A cheat will always be a cheat.
Women in Africa are always being pushed aside and treated as second class citizens. Do this, do that to keep your man, and what happens to the man???? The almighty man isn’t supposed to make efforts to keep the woman??? This is annoying my dear.
Seriously I was laughing reading your points of view. Men are not almighty, men are simply more sexually weak than the women, and therefore need some kinds of support to remain focus. You don’t throw away your child because he’s not intelligent but rather puts effort to make him a success. Men are like that sexually, they are weak. This is not even their fault but simply their nature. So many men weep and suffers from secret pains because they cheated on their wife,because they could not overcome a simple temptation. For a marriage to succeed we must understand and accept first of all our sex difference. Most men are not intentional he-goats,we must realize that,something moved them. Yes men are suppose to have self control which many are trying hard to do but just need that simple supports from their spouse to remain focus. Aside there’s nothing unrealistic about the points above, they are all primarily your responsibility as a wife, we just tend to ignore or get carried away with kids and other issues, this is simply a reminder and not a new way of preventing a man from cheating. I must also add that some men will always remain a cheat just like we have such women too, so you don’t conclude.. judging from such people. I’m referring to responsible husband out there struggling to keep their wife and provide for the family at large,usually they are tempted while doing their best for the family and the points above will help them stay focus. No woman should be lazy to play her role or consider the points of simple effort above as unrealistic. Finally, there’s no points or suggestion that can serve for all men. If your husband is responsible, keep him being more responsible with my points of reminders above. In conclusion, always remember to hand him over to God and find ways to increase the fear of God in him. Thank you!
1.A woman who works and also cares for the kids cannot always exhaust her husband sexually.Understanding is required here
4.A husband who wants the best from his wife must assist her in the house chores and kids even if it’s to keep her company while she works or play with the kids while she cooks.With this l don’t think any right thinking woman will think twice at any request he makes.I believe in the power of communication.If there is anything he is not comfortable with he should tell his wife and work it out together instead of looking for excuses to cheat.
Finally,when a man truly loves his wife,being faithful is easy
Well spoken.
I agree with the aspect of the man helping the woman. It makes the wife happy and helps her reserve some energy for him so she can always exhaust him. And yes, a man who loves his wife will find it easy to stay faithful. Communication is cardinal and the need to involve God in the marriage cannot be over emphasised.
I don’t understand wat all d ladies in the huz re saying but honestly if my woman can do everything on that list,if she like let her leave Aishwarya Rai Bachchan with me in the house & I won’t cheat on her
Lolzz my man is makinge laugh. But I know am keeping almost all of them. Anyways what has the men done to keep us too?
Sacrifice to do just to keep a he goat
Some people still do all these yet the men still go out so its not about the woman alone. Some men are just cursed!
Believe me you dt a husband prostitute will always be no matter what u do to him
Noted
mtcheeew.rubbish.so unrealistic n stupid
d women are to go all out to keep dose problematic species in d house.what do dey do to keep us.rubbish.
In as much as all these won’t stop a man from cheating, we can borrow from this and better our marriages. The reason for cheating isn’t abscent of the above but abscence of the fear of the Lord and lack of true love for ones spouse.
No 8 is the fear of God which without the other. Seven can’t do anything
so women should do this and that, the men should sidon dey look
Lies a man dat wanna cheat will still do. It takes God’s grace nt dis write up
A cheat will always be a cheat,#shikena#
Without the fear of God, everything on this list na story!
Ok oo
Gbam# Almighty man i bow to you, this is shit, ishi
Sandra, I support you jare, don’t mind them. Rubbish
Good advice to the women. With God, it can be done. And like Eke Ekwere Ikono said, a man who truly loves his wife will find it easy to be faithful. God help marriages.