My Wife In The Name Of Society Wedding Has Put Me In Great Debt – Frustrated Husband Cries Out
Out of frustration, a man who just got married recently in Lagos state has lamented on the debt he has been plunged into due to his wife’s excesses and her quest for a society wedding that must set the internet on fire.
The unnamed man who is currently in distress wrote to Joro Olumofin today narrating how vendors have been chasing him around over the debts his wife and her family owed, all in the name of a society wedding.
Read what he wrote below…
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Hmmmmmmmmm na wa oh. When he starts treating her bad now, she will say he has changed. Oga allow her drink garri so she will know what’s up.
Sorry Oga but didn’t you see the signs during courtship? Every girl likes to talk about her wedding day once she finds an acceptable suitor, yes, we like to just gush or day dream about how adorable we want our weddings to be, so didn’t she do same? Didn’t you deduce anything from her talks? Why didn’t you firmly call her to order then?.. or you thought she was joking?.. well now you have it, like Mon suggested, allow her sip garri, cook stew with palm oil, eat noodles without eggs, etc… tell her you’re saving every kobo to pay back debts, then her eyes go clear.
She was just living her fairy tale dreams without considering the present economy. Or could be you projected yourself to your inlaws as Mr Comfortable. Sit her down and tell her things will be a little bit rough in the home front till you finish offsetting the debts she incurred
Na wa o
Awwww
Is a pity
Hmmmm
Eya….its shows that both of you did not sit to plan the wedding, you allowed her to do the planning alone. The solution now is that both of your income will be divided into two parts…one to settle debt, the remaining part you manage it.
Hahahaha society gbese.sorry ooo.this too shall pass
mtcheeeew
God have mercy………..may God not allow my brither meet such family or woman.
Hmmmmm,some men sha. Didn’t u know she was expensive, inconsiderate n demanding bfr proposing to her or where u blinded by her beauty,sex,classic nature n expensive taste not knowing d consequence?
Oga, u wanted a big girl and big family that’s the price you have to pay. Am sure she was not your first girlfriend but no that one wasn’t okay for you, you wanted a porsh lady their you have it. Am sure you saw this extravagant lifestyle but ignored it. U told her to handle the rest and she did. So sorry ehhhh
Like d others suggested allow her drink garri or Even feed herself ,Tell her dat what u owe her is to pay d rent dat u are saving money to pay d debts.
All of u showing pity on dz boy called a man got it all wrong. As an event planner that i am i ave met series of couples, if he had told his wife his budget she will definitely adjust or forget abt d wedding. Dz set of pple planned their wedding on pple’s pocket, i.e hoping on what they might get afta d wedding. Marriage is neva for kidz.
I want to start where you wrote ” I contributed what I and my family could and told her to do the rest” Really? which rest and how will she do the rest ? This reminds me of when one of my friend wedded, the husband gave her 50k for contribution from him and his family of course all the other expenses was from her . If this was your intention then you met a smarter woman or should I say a second selfish person but if you are innocent of this then why didn’t you plan together with her after all its both your wedding.
A lot of things are happening these days, guys want to marry a lady with fat account. Guys who are lucky to get them turn’s out to be house husband because the lady who take up most or all the responsibilities in the house assume the role of the head and the unlucky ones who met deceptive lady will bite their fingers full of regrets and that will be the beginning of a bitter marriage .
You should be a man in your home and always in-charge.
Laughing seriously that I almos&t pee in my body. Oga are u serious? Can’t stop laughing.