7 Things Mums Need To Stop Doing On Facebook
With over 600 million active users, Facebook is bound to get a little crazy at times. Unfortunately, there is no official rule book for this gigantic social empire; however, there are certain rules and etiquette that everyone should consider.
Here are a just a few tips on how you can avoid getting blocked off your friend’s news feed or becoming ‘that mum’:
1. Over posting
We love pictures of your kids. (We really do. Especially babies.) But if I know exactly what you did all day, then you have definitely gone too far. Posting a new picture, status update or article every hour gets to be a little bit much.
Remember, less is more. Posting constantly and filling up your friends’ news feeds is a big no-no. One post a day is just fine. Two is definitely acceptable. Before you post three or more times, consider waiting until another day.
2. Multi-level marketing
There is a big difference between effective social media marketing and guilt tripping. We all love our friends, but please don’t pester us constantly with notifications. If it’s something we genuinely want, we will buy it and support you 100%.
3. Too Many Selfies
Cute selfies? Definitely keep them coming. (Let’s be honest. We all take them.) Posting selfies on a regular basis? No. You can be proud of your outfit and the way you look, but when you post a highly filtered selfie every day it displays a lack of self-confidence.
Your friends are here to help and validate you. (That’s what we’re here for, right?) But please, keep the selfies to a minimum. Believe me, your friends will keep letting you know that you’re gorgeous (because frankly, you are).
Stand back, give the camera to someone else, and have them take pictures of you (somewhere other than your bathroom mirror) living life with the people you love around you. There is something refreshing and wonderful about a picture like that.
4. Not Being real
We want to cheer for you, your family, and your successes. Sharing joy is just another great aspect of social media.
But, nobody’s life is perfect. Don’t be afraid to be your true self online. Share the good moments, and let people support you during the hard ones. Facebook is a great place to get support during difficult times.
Nothing feels better than knowing someone else is going through the same thing as you.
5. Inappropriate content
Please keep the trash off of the internet. Don’t post pictures or articles that someone would be embarrassed to see, or they would be embarrassed for their children or boss to see on their computer.
There is nothing worse than scrolling through your feed and having to block someone for posting pornographic selfies or going off on an explicit rant.
6. Name calling
Everyone appreciates a good debate, and Facebook is an excellent platform to share your thoughts and opinions – but please, please, please don’t get sucked in to useless name calling.
Let’s face the facts: No two people are going to have the exact same opinions and beliefs on every subject. Just because someone thinks differently, doesn’t mean they are a bigot, uninformed or dumb.
If you’re going to have at it in the comments, make sure you are respectful, kind and prudent. If they sink to low levels, you don’t need to join them. Know when to stop and protect your reputation.
7. Cryptic status updates
Posts like, “I can’t believe that just happened” with no follow up are annoying and appropriate only for angsty teenagers. Be real with your friends and family — and don’t write posts just to get follow-up questions that give you unnecessary amounts of attention. If someone has to ask, “what happened?” then your post is too cryptic.
Source: familyshare
Cool.
The last point pisses me off d most
Hahaha, a lot of people post cryptic updates
nice mism. tnx
thank u
Tnx MIM i hardly post anything on facebook
Thanks. There should be moderation in everything we do as humans.
For the selfie part, you need o contact Kim K via twitter. Lol
Thanks
thanks. you are right.
Haha haha nice one
So true
Yeah.Good one
I usually dont do all those but apart from no 5&6 which every sane person should know, I dont think its anybody’s business how anor person runs her account.
Thanx
I post pics once in a blue moon…Tanks anyways.
Nice
I love dis. Me i hardly post selfie or write on my wall.
Moderation is the word
Cool and I agree on d last point. I hate cryptic messages
Cool,l really love this.
Hahahaha..I’m guilty of number 2 only!
All are true n correct especially name calling otherwise known as cyber bullying. Wish pple can just stop n reason before posting comments.
Thanks
Interesting
I agree
Some update can be very annoying, I feel like slapping some people
Nice tips
No 7 is soo annoying.
Gud one
Mmmm, nice tips!
Hehehe. It’s ur account nd should do what you feel like anytime. If Ppl doesn’t like it, defriend or display don’t look. Simple !!
Nice tips
Nice one MIM. Thanks
Lol…..thanks a bunch.
Thanks for the tips.
Thanks,learning
I love this thanks
Thanks for sharing
ok
Thanks MIM