”He locked all doors and said to me that I was going to drown in my blood” – Wife of Record Label Boss Foston Utomi Spills on Domestic Violence (Graphic Photos)
Nigerian music star, Patoranking’s record label boss, Foston Utomi’s wife and mother of his child, Ajoke, has come out to accuse him of domestic violence.
Ajoke shared photos on Instagram last night and said her husband stripped to his underwear in front of her and his friends and battered her for hours. His friends, she said, weren’t able to subdue him as he was allegedly determined to kill her.
This comes after her estranged hubby shared a post on Instagram yesterday, that read:
”When you’re holding on to someone who doesn’t want to stay. – There are certain people who aren’t meant to fit into your life no matter how much you want them to. And the only ones truly worthy of your love are the ones who stand with you through the hard times and laugh with you after the hard times pass.
Maybe a happy ending doesn’t include anyone else right now. Maybe it’s just you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is simply letting go and taking a bold step forward. MARC AND ANGEL”
In response, Ajoke wrote:
”If you think you can post something on a public platform and then come to me in private to say your post is not about me then you must be joking for real. So since you started it I guess is okay for me to come here and ask you “who exactly is your post directed to then”? Awww are you feeling salty cos I left you? Feeling salty cos I rejected all your pathetic pleas for me to come back to you? Only a few people know what a monster you really are, and most of them can’t tell you the truth cos you are feeding them. You said it yourself that through out our relationship and marriage I never did anything wrong to you (I have all the screen shots), I never cheated on you, never talked back at you, never wronged you.
Despite the fact you did unimaginable things to me, all I did was look for new ways to love you everyday. I walk around smiling, trying to be strong for my son but only I know how You have destroyed me, if my scars ever heal it would be a true miracle. Now to whoever this ghost account “hayoxy” is (I swear on my life and my entire family that I have no idea who it is, I’m not following Foston so I didn’t even see the post until he sent me the screenshot) thank you but you honestly don’t even need to fight for me. I haven’t cried in almost 4 months now, that’s enough proof that God has already fought for me.
Now back to your post sir Uba, you will not have a happy ending oh! What happy ending? Let me just tell you right now- it’s impossible! You beat me nothing less than 20 times in 3 yrs and attempted to murder me (MURDER) 3 times and you think you will know peace? It doesn’t matter how much you have, unless your parents take you to a mountain for deliverance you will end up killing yourself mark my words.
You bought me a Range Rover so you may buy your next girl (victim) a Bentley when you find her sure she will enjoy financial bliss but she will pay dearly for you are cursed. You know I’m your heart I was never with you for money, when we started I didn’t even know who you were, I hadn’t even heard Patoranking’s Alubarika, my intentions and love was pure until I finally saw that you didn’t deserve it. Respect yourself!”
She went on to speak on the domestic violence she suffered while they were together:
”In this day my darling husband saw his wife and mother of his child bleeding on the floor but was still hugging and puffing. Swearing on his mothers life that that was going to be my last day on earth. Swearing that he would “enter Instablog” as the next man who killed his wife. I can’t help but imagine 2 conductors on the street fighting, 2 strangers. When one starts to bleed the other would think “ha make I calm down oh” talk less of beating your defenseless wife who did Nothing to you (or please ask him, what I did, I would love to be able to make sense of this, love to know my offense).
He showed no mercy, still said to me that I was going to drown in my blood. He locked all doors, even balconies invade I wanted to jump out! The man I loved striped to his underwear in front of my friend and the abuse went on for hours, he had 2 of his own friends in the house and even they weren’t enough to stop him, he was exchanging blows with them, just to get to me.
It was as though he had 5 men inside him, determined to kill me. I escaped only by the grace of God. My friend and I were running on the street with blood on me like this and people wondering what happened to us. And this was just one day. I can write a book on the living hell I lived. And it’s you, who has the guts to bring this to Instagram? You are not even worthy of being a role model to your son yet You think you a motivational speaker now?
According to reports, the now estranged couple met on Instagram and Ajoke was so happy when they were about to tie the knot in 2016 that he held her hand and supported her despite her parents’ refusal when she got pregnant with their son, Kendrick while in school.
Meanwhile, Foston, CEO of Foston Musik, is yet to respond to these allegations.
So sad!
Photo credit: Instagram
Wowzaa….this act is becoming so rampant lately, who the heck is this animal? and why didn’t you report to human rights and get him arrested with all the evidences?? Some people do not deserve to be cohabiting with human beings.
Only beasts beat their wives. Who raised this particular beast? Na wa oh.
Hmmm, women go through a lot in this so called marriage and still keep quiet, but the so called monsters called will not let them be.
How did we ever come to this in this country??? It beats me that a man who professes love to his wife will imagine raising his hands against her let alone beat her like an animal… Whoever raised these beasts that are raring their ugly heads??? Women need to stand by each other and help those in abusive relationships see the worth in themselves and come out of those dark places. No one deserves to be abused. Common! God only said we should take dominion over animals not fellow humans!!!
Hmmmm…Real men don’t beat
Wow this is deep. We need to start up a movement against domestic violence o