Dear MIMsters: Who Among these Guys Should I Choose?
I need help to choose one these guys. I’m in my mid twenties. I have been in a relationship with Mr. A for two years now. Even though he’s proposed marriage to me, he doesn’t have money. He is an only son who has introduced me to some of his family members. His mom and sisters have been very good to me.
My problem with him is that he pays little attention to me. Even though he’s a contractor, he has never spent a dime on me. Whenever I ask, he always complains that he doesn’t have money. Sometime in 2015, he had a contract that fetched him money but he didn’t give me anything. When I asked him for money during the festive period to make my hair he told me he doesn’t have, he didn’t even gave me money for anything.
Earlier this year, I took in for him and he bluntly told me that he doesn’t have money that I should go and terminate it. He said other girls won’t even tell their boyfriends before aborting it and he never gave me money for the abortion. After the abortion, I made up my mind not to have anything to do with him again. But he apologise afterwards and I forgave him. I was made up my mind to have sex with him anymore.
Two weeks ago, I told him that I want to make my hair and he promised to give me the money and asked to come over to his place. I went there the next day for the money and he told me that he’s in the mood for sex and I refused. When I was about leaving, I asked him for the money he promised me, and he told me that since I refused to have sex with him he can’t give me the money. It’s not as if he’s faithful, he’s an unrepentant cheat.
I told his younger sister everything. She was angry with him. She told me to go and report him to their mom but I felt we’re both mature enough to settle our differences and he believes that men don’t apologize to women even if they’re at fault.
As for Mr. B, I have known him for a year now. He’s employed but he has never talked about marriage, he doesn’t give, if I don’t ask. Though he’s nice, he hardly calls.
A male friend of mine introduce me to Mr C. Though we’ve never physically met, we always talk on the phone, chat and even do video calls. He’s in the military and also schooling.
Mr C is ready to spend but when he told me his plans marriage was never included, although we’ve never sat down to talk one on one but he seems nice.
Please I need your advice on whom to choose.
What are you still doing with mr A? Isn’t it obvious he doesn’t care about you,? In short flee from all 3 men please, none of them are serious with you.
I can’t see any form of seriousness among these three
Quit the relationship between the three men. None of them is ready to date you let alone marrying you. Shine your eyes and run as fast as you can so that you won’t regret or possibly think of committing suicide when these men are done with you. Flee
leave both Mr A n Mr b…..wait patiently d right man would walk in
They are all not serious with you. Wise up Lady.