Dear Mimsters: Do you think I should continue or end this relationship with this guy?
I am getting married in November. I have been in courtship with the guy since October, 2015 and I can say I know him to an extent.
I know that he is an orphan who lost his dad when he was only 6-years old and his mother when he was 15. They both died at the point where he needed lots of care and love the most, so he practically grew up without so much love.
Since we met, I have been trying so hard to show him love, love and more love even when I am love-starved myself.
I sacrificed my needs just to give him attention, love and care as a woman and I always look out for his happiness just because I don’t want him to feel lonely or loveless.
I must confess that I am tired out now. I send messages of love and encouragement daily to him, call him, write him poems, love notes and all that but he doesn’t reciprocate or even show any emotions.
I read books about men and got some about women for him but he never creates the time to read them.
In short, I don’t know what else to do. I’m 26 and he is 30.
Do you think I should continue or just drop it all?
Please drop it. You need love yourself not someone who is draining and ripping you apart.
In my book, I can’t classify this mess as a relationship.
walk away u might marry him n forever live frustrated n unloved. have u spoken to him abt it….did u c any attempt to change???
Dont do it…. run for your life and sanity. He is not interested
i think you should talk to him about it first before concluding because I had the same issues. tell him you would love him to try and be reciprocating your messages, I think he would pick up from there but if he doesn’t maybe he doesn’t have you at heart.