Dear MIMsters: My Husband Has Been Cold Towards Me. Where Did I Go Wrong?

I lost both my parents when I was in Senior High School. Fortunately for me, my first boyfriend who I met then is now my husband who is a good man. The problem is he doesn’t know how to save while I am quite the opposite.

My husband sponsored me through nursing school. During my school days, I saved most of the allowance given to me by the government. Much later, I gathered them together to give to my husband but he did not take it. He told me it is for me, that I should keep it.

Instead of keeping it, I used the money to buy a plot of land which I registered in both our names. I told him after the papers and necessary documents were completed. Now, my Hubby is angry with me because he doesn’t like the land I bought and where it is located.

We are blessed with 2 children and I contribute to the upkeep of the house while I maintain myself and the children. Recently, I opened accounts for the children without informing him because I know he will object to it. He has just found out and when I tried to explain myself that since his job is not stable and based only on contract, I did this to secure the future of or children.  Since then he has been behaving cold towards me. Please tell me, where did I go wrong?