Dear MIMsters: Should I Leave Him or Continue with the Relationship?
I need some relationship advice as I am at a crossroads, not knowing whether to continue or quit this relationship with my boyfriend.
I am currently having a problem with my boyfriend who I started dating four months ago. Through his chats I found out that he has been cheating on me with other girls. They were about three of them and he professed love to all three of them. I confronted him and to silence me, he slapped me across the face.
I did not waste time before returning the slap. I slapped him back and hard and warned him never to talk to me again. Since then he has been apologising and begging me not to leave him. He’s been communicating with me through his friends because I have vehemently refused to pick any of his calls , respond to any of his messages or see him because of what he has done.
He is the one who cheated, yet he had the guts to slap me after I confronted him and reacted. His friends are telling me he has been sick and has been on medications since that day. Now, I am so confused as I don’t know if I should stick to my decision to leave him for good or forgive him continue with the relationship. How am I even sure who is his main chick and I am not the side chick. Please I need your advice.
Dear, u better leave him 4 good. He is pretending to be sick don’t mind him, he cannot change. It happened to me, i left my husband with my kids & he came beging dat he’s been sick & hospitalised promised to change 4 good. With my family intervention i came back but now he is even worst. Anyway, am planning to leave him finally, but i have to take it step by step. Thanks..
Better leave him for good. A man who cheats and slaps you for comfronting him is no good.
Boyfriend wey don dey slap, no be even husband. Me dear, you should know better than to come here and ask for advice. Next time dude’s probably gonna punch the shit outta you
dump his sry ass