Dear MIMsters: I’m Sick and Tired of Being Heartbroken
I met this guy in Oct 2016 through his cousin. He asked me out, I agreed and we started dating. Then, he was 43-years-old and single and and I was 24-years old and also single. Now, I am heartbroken.
Problem started when I noticed that he’s been cheating on me. I reported my findings to his cousin who told me he was going to have a word with my guy. He eventually did and my boyfriend apologized to me. He said that he was scared that I might leave him for another guy even though I have never cheated on him because I love him like Kilode.
Fast forward to Friday afternoon after the Jumat, he told me he wanted to charge his phone before going home and I helped him with it. A soon as I plugged his phone, a thought came through my mind and I unlocked his phone. (He doesn’t know that I knew his password). I scanned through his WhatsApp messages and saw different kinds of chats with other girls but I ignored them. On getting to his gallery, I saw different pictures he had snapped with the a girl in his house. In one, he was holding another girl from behind and had taken her to an eatery.
How do I face and confront him with my findings? Or should I just quit the relationship because I don’t know what to do right now. I am sick and tired of being heartbroken.
A man almost twice your age cheating will never stop. You are still very young, what business do you have with a man that age who doesn’t respect your feelings? Please quit the relationship and wait for someone younger who will treat you right.
quit
THIS GUY IS AN AGBAYA, HE’S STILL SINGLE AT 42 AND CONSTITUTING NUISANCE ON TOP. PLEASE QUIT.