Dear MIMsters: Which of These Men Should I Pick as My Husband

I am a single mother of one. I lost my baby’s father early this year. Even though I never planned to settle down with him due to some circumstances beyond my control, we were still communicating with each other before he died. Now, I need help to pick one from these two guys I have taken to the prayer house.

Currently, there is this guy I been dating for almost 4 years now. When I told the prayer house to pray about him, I was told I won’t enjoy being married to him because I will end up being the one performing the duties of a man. I informed him about the relegation but he didn’t seem bothered.

Meanwhile, there’s this father of three who happens to be my boss. He also lost his wife last year October and now wants to marry me but the problem I have with him is that he’s self centred, loves to satisfy only his needs without thinking whether his actions will hurt others, he jokingly curses and abuses in the presence of his children and can say anything to his children, even things they are not suppose to know about. By the way, his children are spoilt, especially the first born who is 13.

I also got the prayer house to pray and inquire about him. Of all the names I gave, he’s the one they pick as the best; I am really confused. How do I cope with the behaviour of my boss and his kids and how do I let go of the other guy who I am still in love with?