Dear MIMsters: Who Should I Give a Chance? Wale or Kola?

I’m a 27-year-old professional teacher. I was involved in a relationship where my guy and I frequently quarrelled about almost everything. We dated for about one year and 3 months before I introduced him to my mum as a colleague. His name is Kola.

But I had already told my mum about our relationship so she just called later to find out if he was the one and I affirmed. Kola, my guy got angry about the introduction that he almost quitted. He had quitted for about 6 times before. He quits the relationship on me anytime a hectic misunderstanding comes up.

Aside this, he is fun to be with, faithful and generous. My problem is my mum doesn’t like him. She hasn’t liked him since the first day. Whenever I am visiting my mum, he would always call me and wouldn’t want to hang up such that my mum has hard time having a conversation with me when I bisit her due to his interruptions. When I try to end the call so I can spend some time with my mum, he won’t understand and my mum has noticed it.

Mum said she has been praying about my marriage and she has seen one guy, a childhood friend for three consecutive times in one dream. Wale and I grew up together and I have always felt comfortable around him and we don’t argue. I refused to be with him because he wanted sex before marriage and I didn’t. We had started dating before but I realized sex before marriage was wrong so we both came to an agreement and stopped.

I do not know whether I should go on with Kola or give Wale a chance? I do not know what to do now.